"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The last two women I have dated have told me they fall pretty easy for guys and if they found a great one, would obsess over him and give up anything just to be with him. And they have both told this on the first date, within a week of knowing them. Red flag :woo: ? Or am I just a stud :cool: lol? The first girl this year to tell me that said "she could fall for me" and wondered if that scared me cuz usually guys she says that to gets scared. I'm pretty sure ******** for that is "take me you animal". The second girl pretty much said the same thing, hinting around at marriage and kids.

Like I said, red flags or what? they are both really cool girls but I just don't want to get in too deep and end up with a stalker.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hmmm...not sure if I can help but:

I usually imply that the girl that is acting too "stalkish" by saying something indirect like, "wow, u dont bother me much with #'s, thanks". And hoping for a , "do i call to often, or am i talking to u too much?"

Finally got that line above and basically dished out what I found to be, "stalkish".

Ever since then its been pretty good. :)
 
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I just wasn't sure how to take it actually. The first girl is gone, she moved away. But the second girl told me that just last week. She seems to be teh dependant type, looking to me for emotional and ego support for everything. Shes a beautiful girl, hb 8 and thats not being generous. She jsut seems to have alot of issues with her family and personal life right now, and I am thinking that since I made her feel good she will cling to me. Just the needy type that wants to be loved but has no love for herself. That seems self destructive to me.
 
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Originally posted by jmeredi
That seems self destructive to me.
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Tell that to her. Try using her bad sides on a good positive way makin fun of that. Knowing it or not little girls at age of 8 are constantly being "funned off" and they love it. They love it with 8, 18, 28 and even more...

But please do not insult her. Strike a balance
 
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Originally posted by jmeredi
The first girl this year to tell me that said "she could fall for me" and wondered if that scared me cuz usually guys she says that to gets scared. I'm pretty sure ******** for that is "take me you animal".
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******** for that is:

"I'm desperate, unhappy with my life, and have low self-esteem, and I'm looking for a man to validate me... and when he does, I'm going to clutch onto him 24/7."

OR

"I'm a user and manipulator who wants to suck you into being my fallback position by letting you think you've got a shot."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She must be speaking in another dialect of ******** then. :eek: . Your right on about them not being happy with thier life. One came out and told me she was, the other won't say, but it is obvious she is.
 
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pretty soon, if she touchs your hair, that'll mean "I hate you". If she accepts the drink for the bar, she's saying that her gay guy friend is interested in you.

:crackup: :crackup:
 
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What? What does it mean when she looks me in the eyes then looks down?! Or when she asks me to wrestle?! Or when she strips naked and sets on my lap?! So many mixed signals!!!

Serious question though, this girl with a bf recently is nasty to me when he's around, but always tries getting my attention when he's not there. I don't care anything about her, and it's really funny to me watching her try to make me jealous when he's there. Any of you guys ever had this happen? It seems like the only kind of girls I have attracted lately are the ones with bf's.
 
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Funny thing I observed with women trying to establish dominance (?). When in company they want to show the other people who the boss is. But like you say when only in your presence they are more submissive.

Anyway BF or not I don't really care it is the same. 8 out of 10 times women don't have a clue of what they want. So go for what you want.
 
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"Anyway BF or not I don't really care it is the same. 8 out of 10 times women don't have a clue of what they want. So go for what you want."


That's so true. I think that's where mixed signals come from, women who don't know what they want from a man,t hey just know they want him. If said guy were to take the lead he would have her. But when some guys don't and ho hum around they get mixed signals cuz they are waiting for the girl to make a decision when they should be taking the initiative.

Did that make any sense?

And about some women trying to establish dominance, I get this alot from diva type girls. But it's so funny to see them act this way when you know they are full of it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: Re: Women that fall in love too fast.

Originally posted by Omni
******** for that is:

"I'm desperate, unhappy with my life, and have low self-esteem, and I'm looking for a man to validate me... and when he does, I'm going to clutch onto him 24/7."

OR

"I'm a user and manipulator who wants to suck you into being my fallback position by letting you think you've got a shot."
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This is spot on. BUT the real point is whatever those chicks TELL you is irrelevant and has no bearing on reality or should even be paid attention to. Actions not words.

And besides that:

"When I meet a great guy I fall for him hard"

Big fvckin deal, show me a chick who doesnt is what I would have been thinking anyway. This whole thread was a waste of time.
 
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