"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women says she can't find man cause she is too attractive

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zekko

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That lady got hit with an ugly stick. Yet every other word out of her mouth is about how hot she is. WTF?
 

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people do everything to get famous. she probably is aware shes uglier than average but she will say shes beautiful in hopes it will make her go viral
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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resilient

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You can tell this lady is an actor (dating coach), any normal women does not have a well rehearsed plan on what they are going to say. Word
I was thinking the same thing. She sounds like a professional dater that is used to talking about herself in a self-absorbed sort of way to prop up her self-esteem. The sad thing that she doesn't realize is that she turns away potential suitors by conversing this way.
 

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She sounds like a professional dater that is used to talking about herself in a self-absorbed sort of way to prop up her self-esteem. The sad thing that she doesn't realize is that she turns away potential suitors by conversing this way.
That confidence is really sexy, right? :rolleyes:
 

A 3% Percent Man

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Well she comes with baggage and drama she has 4 kids
For her age she looks good
Her problem is that she is looking for an Alpha or A Don Juan or A 3% Man. Most of those guys her age are either married , divorce and not looking to remarry or single and enjoying life with younger women.

I am 38 going to be 39 in November
I don't want to settle with a woman my age or older.
I prefer 25 to 34 years range at the moment
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone can make a typo. Let's help:

Women says she can't find man cause she is too UNattractive.
 
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