"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have you seen 35+ year old British women? Boner-killer is their middle name.

They always have to blame men for it though. Women getting too many proposals or too few: doesn't matter, it's all MEN's fault!
 

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Dear Mike,
Thanks for that.....Sad business....but all is not lost,if you can handle their mercenary values system and lack of any sense of humour,Chinese Ladies are rather good value......I could not ever see myself going back to a Western Woman.
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Mike,
Thanks for that.....Sad business....but all is not lost,if you can handle their mercenary values system and lack of any sense of humour,Chinese Ladies are rather good value......I could not ever see myself going back to a Western Woman.

the aussie speakth the truth
 

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Put the low libido husband in a fully mirrored room with a naked 18 year old hottie and a bottle of body oil, and see how long it takes for him to sport a boner. If it takes longer than it would have done 15 years ago I'll accept the hypothesis. Until then I'd be more likely to accept an alternative comparison, like, say, how much faster are the wives packing in the blubber these days.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I read somewhere that the leading cause of impotency is an aging wife. Anybody here think that Hugh Hefner ever used Viagra?

BTW did somebody say British women
 

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Dear Maxtro,
"Anybody here think Hugh Hefner uses Viaga?"Well this guy on the net does..."Hugh Hefner, the aging head of the Playboy empire who is known for his bevy of beautiful blondes, gives Viagra credit for maintaining his pleasure quotient. Rumor has it that he provides bowls of Viagra tablets at his famous parties."
 

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Cute article, but I think middle-aged women have been not putting out for centuries. It's just that now some cheeky magazine can survey 50 women online and call it a representative sample of an entire nation.

Both men's and women's libido decline with age. Medical fact. And if you look at the lumpy as$es and distended beer guts of the average sedentary westerner you can see why.

I will give the author credit in that there is some merit to the feminised male hypothesis. 'Proper' modern men are too afraid to get after it. Not enough c0ck and balls.
 
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