"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women love the grey zone.

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A woman’s main goal is to get as much as possible from a man, while giving as little as possible. Thus, it is not in a woman’s best interest to be direct. It is in a woman’s best interest to live in the grey zone; to give conflicting answers, to give mixed messages. By doing this, she can see how *desperate* the man is while getting more and more from him. And because society backs a woman in all cases, she can do no wrong with her conflicting behaviour.

This is why men should make a move as quick as possible, while giving her a little as possible. By going for sex quick, a man can neutralize a woman’s power. Once a man has sex with a woman, he should keep acting the same way. He should not give more, he should not change his behaviour, he should not act differently. A man should keep everything the same. Once a man acts *differently*, or nicer, or better after the sex, the woman knows he is desperate and expects more from him.

So men, with women, make sure you get DIRECT answers.
DIRECT, DIRECT, DIRECT. You wouldn't accept wishy washy answers from your family, friends, coworkers, health care provider, insurance provider, mortgage provider, or bank. So why would you accept it from a woman?

Be strong.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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