Women don't really care

[blueline]

I feel like they don't really care about their dudes at all, and if they do, it's this fleeting thing that is really intense for one moment and then gone by the next day.

Women have their reputations to protect whereas dudes have their emotions to protect. Maybe I'm just a *****, but I feel like men get way more attached than women.

 

[Falcon25]

You just figured this out???

 

[blueline]

Yeah, it's crazy. Just figured it out.

 

[Falcon25]

The reason why women like men who don't get attached, is because those men are RARE. Men fall in love VERY QUICK. They don't like that. They want to win your love, they don't give a fuvk about your feelings. It's their feelings they are worried about.



Yeah man. If you can mind fuvk them, have them fall in love with you, they will cry for years. But it takes A LOT for that. A part of that is when you don't get attached. Men see a hot girl and these feelings of love and passion and everything over comes them. Women aren't the same. They need TIME. So, don't get attached, and go slow, she will love you forever.

 

[blueline]

I also just figured out that the key to a dude's heart is physical affection, and if you've got some **** buddy arrangement, you've gotta roll out after ****ing.

 

[blueline]

The reason why women like men who don't get attached, is because those men are RARE. Men fall in love VERY QUICK. They don't like that. They want to win your love, they don't give a fuvk about your feelings. It's their feelings they are worried about.

And those feelings are gone in an instant. The last girl I dumped felt a whole lot of pain for that 5 minutes she cried for, but then boom, a few days later she's like "No regrets, you'll be alright" and was all smiley. I thought she even wanted me to kiss her for one last time, but no, not really.

LOL, seriously?

 

[LoneWolf]

I feel like they don't really care about their dudes at all, and if they do, it's this fleeting thing that is really intense for one moment and then gone by the next day.

Women have their reputations to protect whereas dudes have their emotions to protect. Maybe I'm just a *****, but I feel like men get way more attached than women.

good thread. i know i get attached quicker than women that's for sure. but yeah i am working on that at the moment. i only just started seeing this great girl and fell for her fast and hard. i am backing off now in hopes she initiates contact again. i think meeting other girls helps a hell of a lot.

The reason why women like men who don't get attached, is because those men are RARE. Men fall in love VERY QUICK. They don't like that. They want to win your love, they don't give a fuvk about your feelings. It's their feelings they are worried about.



Yeah man. If you can mind fuvk them, have them fall in love with you, they will cry for years. But it takes A LOT for that. A part of that is when you don't get attached. Men see a hot girl and these feelings of love and passion and everything over comes them. Women aren't the same. They need TIME. So, don't get attached, and go slow, she will love you forever.

sounds so true man. i noticed many times girls don't fall in love quick, they take it slow. but when they do they come down hard with the love! that is definitely worth playing it cool at the beginning

 

[Drdeee]

Women have their reputations to protect whereas dudes have their emotions to protect.

So true.

This last Friday at work this bosses wife was going on about how a guy should pay on date. I just dropped one line, if a girl came over to eat then why do I need her? The wife almost swallowed her tongue and spend 20 minutes talking about how relationship between her and her hubby (my boss) is purely out of love. When I left I said bye and she said nothing. I hit the spot there.

Women have their reputations to protect. If you're aware, it easy to tell if their reputation is for real or absolute bull.

Men have their egos and feelings that ego invokes to protect.

 

[f283000]

It's because women have so many more options than men in the same league. It's easy to get over someone if you'll have a new one in a few days.

In a few days? Women now a days can pick and chose from their real life orbiters, guys on facebook, guys on dating sites etc and have this done THE SAME DAY, IN AN HOUR IF THEY WANT!

What do you mean by in a few days? She can just send a msg to any random guy on her facebook list to go to her place and boom she's not lonely anymore. That's how easy it is for women now a days.

The only examples of where this is true for guys is with celebrities. Celebrities are the "women" of men due to the fact that if they feel lonely they got a whole batch of orbiters to pick from.

 

[LoneWolf]

In a few days? Women now a days can pick and chose from their real life orbiters, guys on facebook, guys on dating sites etc and have this done THE SAME DAY, IN AN HOUR IF THEY WANT!

What do you mean by in a few days? She can just send a msg to any random guy on her facebook list to go to her place and boom she's not lonely anymore. That's how easy it is for women now a days.

The only examples of where this is true for guys is with celebrities. Celebrities are the "women" of men due to the fact that if they feel lonely they got a whole batch of orbiters to pick from.

yeah i have always wondered how girls care so little if they miss out on you and just dump ur ass without thinking twice. it's cause they got so many other guys on backup they will never feel lonely. we don't get that. im sure if i had like unlimited girls waiting in line for me to message/call them for a hook up i wouldn't really care if i dropped one. girls are lucky like that :/

 

[runner83]

In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.


The Cardinal Rule of Relationships


Are you in control? Or is she?

 

[st_99]

So, don't get attached, and go slow, she will love you forever.

Looking back, all the girls that I always kept at arms length were WAY more into me than the ones I got all head over heels for.

It must be some sort of natural law coded in girls DNA.

 

[LoneWolf]

Looking back, all the girls that I always kept at arms length were WAY more into me than the ones I got all head over heels for.

It must be some sort of natural law coded in girls DNA.

same story for me bro.

 

[bigneil]

In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.


The Cardinal Rule of Relationships


Are you in control? Or is she?

I think Facebook slants it in favor of the women. They have every guy who ever liked them in their entire life at their disposal.

 

[Jeffst1980]

Looking back, all the girls that I always kept at arms length were WAY more into me than the ones I got all head over heels for.

It must be some sort of natural law coded in girls DNA.

Indeed, it is--because by keeping her at arm's length you are communicating that you have a lot of options, and therefore very desirable. Pretty basic stuff.


Those of you that are having problems getting attached too soon, remember this: The LESS effort you put into her, the more she'll want you.

If you like a girl and you're not sure if she's all that into you, DON'T text her after a date; DON'T reach for rapport with things like, "we have so much in common!"; DON'T clear your schedule in case she wants to hang out with you. These things can only hurt you--don't worry, if she likes you, she won't forget who you are.

Now, when you DO see her, it's GREAT to make her feel special and take an interest in her. But, between dates, you should be too busy with other things to really talk with her--at least at first. Early on, women are scanning for signs of clingy-ness, and the most reliable indicator of this is how much a guy contacts them...even if you're not calling to ask her out. Be patient and make her wonder a bit...silence is often the seducer's best weapon.

 

[Alle_Gory]

I think Facebook slants it in favor of the women. They have every guy who ever liked them in their entire life at their disposal.

Yes but if they value their "reputation" (code for vagina I guess), then do they really have so many men at their disposal?

 

[LoneWolf]

Indeed, it is--because by keeping her at arm's length you are communicating that you have a lot of options, and therefore very desirable. Pretty basic stuff.


Those of you that are having problems getting attached too soon, remember this: The LESS effort you put into her, the more she'll want you.

If you like a girl and you're not sure if she's all that into you, DON'T text her after a date; DON'T reach for rapport with things like, "we have so much in common!"; DON'T clear your schedule in case she wants to hang out with you. These things can only hurt you--don't worry, if she likes you, she won't forget who you are.

Now, when you DO see her, it's GREAT to make her feel special and take an interest in her. But, between dates, you should be too busy with other things to really talk with her--at least at first. Early on, women are scanning for signs of clingy-ness, and the most reliable indicator of this is how much a guy contacts them...even if you're not calling to ask her out. Be patient and make her wonder a bit...silence is often the seducer's best weapon.

i gotta remember this. i always get clingy at the start.

 

[IKO69]

Well you're right and why should they? We know most guys fall under the same umbrella- it's your job to make her care and for starters you'll want to do things the majority of other guys don't necessarily do bu would like to do.