Women Don't Like Sex as Much as Men

[jhonny9546]

There are a lot of attractive women that are basically roommates with their husbands looking for some d!ck on the side on those apps but you'll usually never know it until after it happens several times and they eventually come clean or you start asking questions because things are not really adding up.

Don't you feel responsible for asking first if she was already in a relationship? (Regardless of whether she was available to you at the time).
It's one of my current values to not make moves on women who are already in a relationship.
That's what I've learned along the way.

I understand that if a man sees a woman as completely available, he doesn't ask these questions, but I can't understand how you can't resent doing what you did.

 

[jhonny9546]

I believe men have a stronger hormone driven libido component while women have a stronger dopamine driven libido component.

That is the reason why men would gladly bang a woman that they dont like that much if they happen to be horny while women get horny when they meet the right men they like.

This is a very good point! It also correlated to how women choose, and stay, in a relationship.
The relationship shouldn't be healthy or not, it should be the right kind of man, the one that will trigger the right dopaminergic response in her. This would explain the multitude of "toxic" relationships in the world.

they find only a fraction of the guys attractive

This is subjective to each woman, but even a Brad Pitt will be considered "normal" after living together. Living together also kills a Chad 10.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Don't you feel responsible for asking first if she was already in a relationship? (Regardless of whether she was available to you at the time).
It's one of my current values to not make moves on women who are already in a relationship.
That's what I've learned along the way.

I understand that if a man sees a woman as completely available, he doesn't ask these questions, but I can't understand how you can't resent doing what you did.

Most of the time, women go out of their way of not letting you know, so the responsibility is not on you. It would be a far stretch for such a thing. If the woman's boyfriend is the criminal type or a psychopath, you'll likely want to know, but again, women are pros at hiding their infidelity. Sometimes.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I would argue women like sfx as much or even more than men; When she’s doing it with a guy she is REALLY into. Otherwise, definitely less.