steelpulse
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- Dec 2, 2018
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I just rejected dave17's "dream girl." Twice. Beautiful face, late 20's, dark hair, somewhat thick legs and rump. I met her a few months ago at a lounge. October? I was on a date so I didn't have a chance to chat her up. We just talked very briefly while my girl was in the bathroom. She was so into me, staring and smiling non-stop.
I saw her again a couple of weeks later at a nearby club. She approached me on the dance floor but I was with a date again. So I couldn't dance with her.
I saw her a third time at this same club. Now, she's pissed at me. Never mind that I was on a date both times before. She had approached me and made her interest known and because I didn't reciprocate, she's pissed. So now I'm here solo but she's extremely upset: she glares at me. I smile and she approaches anyway, but refuses to grind or make out just platonic dancing side by side. No problem. I notice finally that she has thick legs and ass. This is just not my body type. I like slim curves: proportional and thin. So regardless I'm just not feeling it.
I say hi, hug, smile, try to be really nice to her. It turns out she's a regular at this club. But she KNOWS I'm not into her and it pisses her off big time. She tries to smile and be cheerful and upbeat but she can't fake it very well. She has a large crew of mediocre and older looking girlfriends and some of them approach me from time to time to dance. I just dance with them platonically so they don't get upset. These girls however, have a large crew of orbiters who are desperate to hook it up with any of them.
How can I friend zone these women without pissing them off? This girl knows she has no right to feel pissed off: I did nothing wrong to her, but she's upset anyway. I think this is the best I can do. Be as nice as possible and let them deal with their feelings on their own. The thing is, like the stalker girl, I run into her a lot and it gets uncomfortable dealing with these weird negative vibes.
I saw her again a couple of weeks later at a nearby club. She approached me on the dance floor but I was with a date again. So I couldn't dance with her.
I saw her a third time at this same club. Now, she's pissed at me. Never mind that I was on a date both times before. She had approached me and made her interest known and because I didn't reciprocate, she's pissed. So now I'm here solo but she's extremely upset: she glares at me. I smile and she approaches anyway, but refuses to grind or make out just platonic dancing side by side. No problem. I notice finally that she has thick legs and ass. This is just not my body type. I like slim curves: proportional and thin. So regardless I'm just not feeling it.
I say hi, hug, smile, try to be really nice to her. It turns out she's a regular at this club. But she KNOWS I'm not into her and it pisses her off big time. She tries to smile and be cheerful and upbeat but she can't fake it very well. She has a large crew of mediocre and older looking girlfriends and some of them approach me from time to time to dance. I just dance with them platonically so they don't get upset. These girls however, have a large crew of orbiters who are desperate to hook it up with any of them.
How can I friend zone these women without pissing them off? This girl knows she has no right to feel pissed off: I did nothing wrong to her, but she's upset anyway. I think this is the best I can do. Be as nice as possible and let them deal with their feelings on their own. The thing is, like the stalker girl, I run into her a lot and it gets uncomfortable dealing with these weird negative vibes.
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