"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women asking for your number

Complicated

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The other weekend on a Friday night I met this woman. I hooked up we went to her place I got up the next morning and left. The next night I arrive at this bar with a bunch of the guys and there she sits with some guy (which she later called a pitty date). I make eye contact and say hello but keep on walking. Well me and the guys go grab a table get some drinks have a few shots and what not. One of my buddies gets up to go to the bathroom and she comes and sits down in his seat. She then ask me can she have the pleasure of having my phone number. So I give her my number and she gets up and goes back to her table. The night goes on and me and my buddy are leaving and she come up to me kisses me and says she wants to go with me. So the three of us leave and then i drop my buddy off and we go to her house hook up and I leave the next morning. This was about two weeks ago and I haven't heard from her. I have to pass her house on the way to and from work everyday and I've been tempted to stop by when I see she's home but I'm think I shouldn't do that. I think I should just let her call or not. If she doesn't call i'm not exactly sure what I should do or say the next time i run into her somewhere. Any ideas?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Zero Hero

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First off, she just wants casual sex so don't get attached. It seems she frequents that bar so why don't you just meet up with here there again? If that's not an option, make an excuse to go to her house, but don't just go. Make up a holiday card or something.
 

Complicated

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I was thinking just casual sex too. But that second night, same night she got my number, before we went to sleep she asked me if I wanted to be her boyfriend. In my shock I just told her we would see. The card idea sounds good though. This is a girl that I wld love to have a casual sex thing going on with b/c even though she is pretty, great body and all she is not some one I wlld get into anything serious with.
 

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I was thinking just casual sex too. But that second night, same night she got my number, before we went to sleep she asked me if I wanted to be her boyfriend.
'Crazy' flares are firing all around this one, I'd leave it alone... she sounds wierd and wierd can lead to some dangerous situations


-Cod3r
 

Complicated

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I'm thinking I agree with you there. Not sure if it was the question i was asked or the 10 prescription bottles on the dresser. I know they all have snakes in their heads but I think this one has more than most.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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