Originally posted by LuckyStrike
You can generalize all you want but life isn't always that simple. I agree with you that most players don't have respect for WOMEN, but a player can have confidence, not shallow arrogance, in himself and his abilities.
It depends what you are considering a player ... it sounds to me like you are lumping everyone who is successful with women a player, which is just simply not true.
A player is dishonest, cheats, and uses forms of manipulation. None of those things are showing signs of confidence, rather a lack of confidence.
which leads me to ...
Originally posted by squirrels
Is it that guys who are "players" attract women?
Or is it that guys who attract a lot of women end up getting called "players"?
BINGO! Typical female ****blocking jealousy at work here ...
