"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women are driving me crazy.

Dan Bautista

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Hey guys.

I've been trying to focus on my studies and myself before all women at this time. I've read every article I can find and I've tried many other methods (deep breathing, etc.) and none of this seems to help me keep my mind off women. I can't stop thinking about women which then makes me unable to focus on the task at hand.

I keep myself occupied but whenever I stop the activity I go back to thinking about women. It's gotten so crazy that everything I think about doing I also consider how impressive I would be for everyone else including women.

This keeps me awake at night for hours and even after I get a couple of hours sleep I'll wake up in the middle to take a piss and can't go back to sleep, thinking about the same thing.

I've got my priorities straight - education over women but I can't seem to put it into application. Nothing I read has helped me and this has gotten so worse that in everything I do, I'm starting to see how I can impress someone else with it. It's driving me crazy.

Again, I've read the articles, etc. but none of them seem to help. Any of you had a similar problem? If so how did you deal with it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jetleg

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You need to j*erk off /f*ck more often.
 

dustmuffin

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well he ll...ask one out and f uck her. what's stopping you?
 

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Hey guys.

I've been trying to focus on my studies and myself before all women at this time. I've read every article I can find and I've tried many other methods (deep breathing, etc.) and none of this seems to help me keep my mind off women. I can't stop thinking about women which then makes me unable to focus on the task at hand.

I keep myself occupied but whenever I stop the activity I go back to thinking about women. It's gotten so crazy that everything I think about doing I also consider how impressive I would be for everyone else including women.

This keeps me awake at night for hours and even after I get a couple of hours sleep I'll wake up in the middle to take a piss and can't go back to sleep, thinking about the same thing.

I've got my priorities straight - education over women but I can't seem to put it into application. Nothing I read has helped me and this has gotten so worse that in everything I do, I'm starting to see how I can impress someone else with it. It's driving me crazy.

Again, I've read the articles, etc. but none of them seem to help. Any of you had a similar problem? If so how did you deal with it?
Come on bro, you can't keep your mind off women? You are laying it on a little thick.

You must be a rich kid and have no real life problems - making rent, job, health. Imagine if you couldn't pay your rent for one month, imagine if you had a massive loan the bank gave you and couldn't pay it back, imagine if you had health issues and were in the hospital, imagine if you were going to get fired tomorrow, imagine if you didn't have enough money to wash your clothes or eat. Imagine if you were an immigrant and going to kicked out of America because of Trump. Imagine if the government had you fingerprinted and put you into a "religious database" and discriminated against you everytime you did anything connected with them.

And you wake up in cold sweats because of what a 28 year girl who has slept with five 6'2 hockey players thinks of you? Weak. o_O
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dan Bautista

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Thanks for the advice, guys. Your opinions are really something to think about.

I've been slacking off for the past school years and have very little time left before my finals so yeah I can't really even waste a minute (ironic how I am right now).

Come on bro, you can't keep your mind off women? You are laying it on a little thick.

You must be a rich kid and have no real life problems - making rent, job, health. Imagine if you couldn't pay your rent for one month, imagine if you had a massive loan the bank gave you and couldn't pay it back, imagine if you had health issues and were in the hospital, imagine if you were going to get fired tomorrow, imagine if you didn't have enough money to wash your clothes or eat. Imagine if you were an immigrant and going to kicked out of America because of Trump. Imagine if the government had you fingerprinted and put you into a "religious database" and discriminated against you everytime you did anything connected with them.

And you wake up in cold sweats because of what a 28 year girl who has slept with five 6'2 hockey players thinks of you? Weak. o_O
This one got me thinking a lot about my situation, bro. Really appreciate your time.
 

RangerMIke

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You are a man... so what? I really don't see the problem. You don't think all heterosexual men think about woman on a regular basis.
 
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