"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women and their "doggies" ...Emasculated pets?

Joey Too Nice

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What the hell is with women and their pet dogs these days?

1) The women who like to "dress them up" all cute.

2) The women who talk about their problems to them.

3) The women who seek their protection.

4) The women who carry them in "cute" little doggie bags in department stores.

Is this AFC cuckolding for pets the new "in" thing for women these days?? Lonely AW's? Emasculation at it's peak? Since when did the sexes disconnect from each other this bad? And that's not even going towards men who decide to try to be "prettier" than women these days. (Threading their eyebrows, manicure's, fake and bake tans, shaving their entire bodies, perfect sculpted hair cuts every week, cosmetic surgery, and YES wearing LIP GLOSS! There are some so-called "alpha males" who I've seen out at clubs with chicks wearing LIP GLOSS. WTF is going on these days???

Poor Mutt's
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SandHawk said:
omg, dudes dating chicks that wear LIPGLOSS!
Fags.

Women DO find slight traces of femininity in men very attractive, but too much, and it's too much. Same how us guys find slight masculine traits in women attractive (Ex. They like cars, sports, beer, being sassy, etc.).
 

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Uhm, how is dating a girl that wears lipgloss gay? Wearing lipgloss yourself doesn't make you a fag either, just an overly girly dude.

Really, you guys should focus on your game instead of judging others. Don't pay attention to them, pay more attention to you and then girl you're dating. Oh right, you ain't dating one.
 

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So how many prostitutes are you "dating" in Amsterdam?

lol. I meant the guy is wearing lip gloss and not chapstick.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Vice said:
Fags.

Women DO find slight traces of femininity in men very attractive, but too much, and it's too much. Same how us guys find slight masculine traits in women attractive (Ex. They like cars, sports, beer, being sassy, etc.).
Totally disagree. Finding any masculine trait in a woman is a total turn off for me. I don't care if they like beer or not, I'd rather they just be feminine and stick to wine. I'd rather they just stick to their feminine ways and not try to be one of the lads.
 

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SandHawk said:
Uhm, how is dating a girl that wears lipgloss gay? Wearing lipgloss yourself doesn't make you a fag either, just an overly girly dude.
My bad; I mis-read your post.

But wearing lip gloss (than hasn't been transferred to you by a girl) is freakishly gay. Just sayin'

SandHawk said:
Really, you guys should focus on your game instead of judging others. Don't pay attention to them, pay more attention to you and then girl you're dating. Oh right, you ain't dating one.
Very true on all points, especially the last one :)
 

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CaptainJ said:
Totally disagree. Finding any masculine trait in a woman is a total turn off for me. I don't care if they like beer or not, I'd rather they just be feminine and stick to wine. I'd rather they just stick to their feminine ways and not try to be one of the lads.

Totally agree!!!! If I wanted masculinity I'd turn gay. That being said, I am not attracted to the tomboy type at all. I do not even care for the women that like riding motorcycles. There are some dudes that do, I am just not one of them.
 

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SandHawk said:
No, f*cking a dude up the *ss while making out with him is freakishly gay.
Maybe we're having a misunderstanding here. You are, after all, in Europe.

These three women are wearing lip gloss:

Girl 1
Girl 2
Girl 3

Product:


Lip Gloss


This is what I'm talking about. Not chapstick, for dried lips. But lip-freakin' gloss, the sh*t that makes your lips look all shiny.

Any guy wearing that sh*t should have his masculinity questioned.

Then again, in Europe you have guys wearing v-necks and women's sunglasses, so it's probably just a culture difference. The emasculation of men is at its worst in Sweden.

Edit: I'm about to start another internet argument. I'm going to quit while I'm ahead. But I still think any guy wearing lip gloss is gay. Nothing wrong with gay dudes, but it's just gay.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vice said:
Fags.

Women DO find slight traces of femininity in men very attractive, but too much, and it's too much. Same how us guys find slight masculine traits in women attractive (Ex. They like cars, sports, beer, being sassy, etc.).
I find almost none of those things attractive in women.

Sassy? Had enough of that in America. No more for me.

Cars? Well of course. A girl wants to ride in a nice upscale luxury car with nice heated leather seats. Who the hell doesn't?

Sports? Again, had that in America. Every girl is kicking a soccer ball and wears shorts. Not for me.

Beer? No. I don't even drink beer. Beer reminds me of the middle class masses that I despise. Give me the wealthy or the poor. The rest are boring and bland.
 

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SandHawk said:
omg, dudes dating chicks that wear LIPGLOSS!

Lmao. Sorry! I meant the dude is wearing lip gloss. That is semi pillow biter.
 

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Vice said:
Maybe we're having a misunderstanding here. You are, after all, in Europe.

Any guy wearing that sh*t should have his masculinity questioned.
I fully agree all these dudes have masculinity issues. I do however have problems with the OMG GAY stamp on this crap. Being feminized is a lot different than being gay.

And yes, people wear v-necks, but most of that is done by the whole "metro" male groups, the wussies that would wear lipgloss. However, I'm still wondering why this draws so much of your attention. Focus on your game and the girls, not other men.
 
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