So, this may be left field for some but I was wondering a few things here.
Obviously during intercourse it is required the female submit to the male. The male must elicit the trust from a female that he may enter into her body and eject his seed, potentially leaving her with a 9month pregnancy and a child to raise. These are the workings in the hindbrain of the female which is why money is such a huge mating signal for men.
So does anybody have an explanation why it is that certain women may want to experience this to its most extreme? They not only want to permit a man to enter them and theoretically impregnate them (which somewhat leaves the female at his mercy, or at least her life in the coming few months, assuming she is not the wealthier party). In case wealth is not a differentiating factor, the man must have other qualities to indicate value in the form of physical strength, an imposing respectable aura, or in the worst case scenario, some beta quality indicating future support in other ways. If this is the case it is also likely she will take the seed of another.
It seems that female submissive women that are interested in BD$M are interested in experiencing this power differential to the fullest. They want to let go of their personal responsibilities for a short while by giving even the responsibility for her safety in the hands of another person. Combine this with sex and it becomes a slippery slope. Either party can become addicted to the rush of the power exchange, and it becomes an ego fuelling exercise.
The man's ego is inflated because a woman trusts him to such an extent and he is allowed to do what all of society has said is not allowed. The woman's ego is inflated because she is doing something naughty that other women can't do or won't allow done to them, and thus they find they have a newfound power over men.
This can become a very slippery slope which is why in BD$M it is often normal to use a contract in which the parties agree to a certain power exchange sexual relationship for a certain amount of time. In this contract it is then made clear what the rules are concerning infidelity and the time span over which the contract is valid (not legally of course).
This somehow strengthens the willingness of the submissive as it is written in a contract that her role is only temporary and that she may not engage in sexual contact with anyone else (for any self respecting dominant).
So this is a dynamic in which all of the woman's psychological boxes are ticked concerning attraction. She submits 100%. The man however must project an aura of control and levelheadedness to elicit trust. The female knows she will be replaced and will therefore will not cheat. In exchange for this seemingly onesided contract the female will learn to push a few of her sexual boundaries, helping her to learn how to satisfy and seduce men mentally, by being able to take everything the guy throws at them.
Within BD$M you find many female submissives who identify as brats. These are submissives who, in a nutshell, are also attention wh0res. I assume they have had experiences with weak dominants and thus have the habit of perpetually sh!ttesting the dominant in order to continually be punished, which they grow to enjoy. This leads the dominant to thus come to the conclusion that the only true punishment is to ignore the female altogether.
In the case they find a balanced, experienced, highly regarded dominant she may submit fully, mentally, physically, psychologically and sexually. If you have ever experienced anything like this, this too is a massive ego boost for a dominant. It is important in such a case to remain level-headed. It's somewhat akin to training a tiger instead of a dog. These women, when they lose respect, will feel as though they have been bamboozled. You must as a man therefore always remain imperturbable in the case of any instability.
It becomes a matter of management wherein you see through the female mind and simply act accordingly. In such a case, again, it is important not to over-inflate the ego. An overinflated ego is what the women use to maneuver you.
This is the irony of relationships and possibly the entire dynamic of psychosexual relationships in a nutshell.
Any questions or additional information?
Obviously during intercourse it is required the female submit to the male. The male must elicit the trust from a female that he may enter into her body and eject his seed, potentially leaving her with a 9month pregnancy and a child to raise. These are the workings in the hindbrain of the female which is why money is such a huge mating signal for men.
So does anybody have an explanation why it is that certain women may want to experience this to its most extreme? They not only want to permit a man to enter them and theoretically impregnate them (which somewhat leaves the female at his mercy, or at least her life in the coming few months, assuming she is not the wealthier party). In case wealth is not a differentiating factor, the man must have other qualities to indicate value in the form of physical strength, an imposing respectable aura, or in the worst case scenario, some beta quality indicating future support in other ways. If this is the case it is also likely she will take the seed of another.
It seems that female submissive women that are interested in BD$M are interested in experiencing this power differential to the fullest. They want to let go of their personal responsibilities for a short while by giving even the responsibility for her safety in the hands of another person. Combine this with sex and it becomes a slippery slope. Either party can become addicted to the rush of the power exchange, and it becomes an ego fuelling exercise.
The man's ego is inflated because a woman trusts him to such an extent and he is allowed to do what all of society has said is not allowed. The woman's ego is inflated because she is doing something naughty that other women can't do or won't allow done to them, and thus they find they have a newfound power over men.
This can become a very slippery slope which is why in BD$M it is often normal to use a contract in which the parties agree to a certain power exchange sexual relationship for a certain amount of time. In this contract it is then made clear what the rules are concerning infidelity and the time span over which the contract is valid (not legally of course).
This somehow strengthens the willingness of the submissive as it is written in a contract that her role is only temporary and that she may not engage in sexual contact with anyone else (for any self respecting dominant).
So this is a dynamic in which all of the woman's psychological boxes are ticked concerning attraction. She submits 100%. The man however must project an aura of control and levelheadedness to elicit trust. The female knows she will be replaced and will therefore will not cheat. In exchange for this seemingly onesided contract the female will learn to push a few of her sexual boundaries, helping her to learn how to satisfy and seduce men mentally, by being able to take everything the guy throws at them.
Within BD$M you find many female submissives who identify as brats. These are submissives who, in a nutshell, are also attention wh0res. I assume they have had experiences with weak dominants and thus have the habit of perpetually sh!ttesting the dominant in order to continually be punished, which they grow to enjoy. This leads the dominant to thus come to the conclusion that the only true punishment is to ignore the female altogether.
In the case they find a balanced, experienced, highly regarded dominant she may submit fully, mentally, physically, psychologically and sexually. If you have ever experienced anything like this, this too is a massive ego boost for a dominant. It is important in such a case to remain level-headed. It's somewhat akin to training a tiger instead of a dog. These women, when they lose respect, will feel as though they have been bamboozled. You must as a man therefore always remain imperturbable in the case of any instability.
It becomes a matter of management wherein you see through the female mind and simply act accordingly. In such a case, again, it is important not to over-inflate the ego. An overinflated ego is what the women use to maneuver you.
This is the irony of relationships and possibly the entire dynamic of psychosexual relationships in a nutshell.
Any questions or additional information?
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