It depends on the guy also. Some guys are bad boys and stay that way. They have no desire to settle down and start a family. So if that’s your thing then just keep doing what you’re doing, stay a jerk (and don’t play the listener, nice guy type) and those girls that are receptive to it will flock to you. I found the Majority of girls want to have babies tho and start families. So for those girls (which is the majority) then yea of course they’re looking for a stable and responsible man that will look out for the family and support em.
its really that simple. if you want to keep having fun without any family responsibilities then just make sure that you’re hooking up with girls that want the same thing. But expect chaos and instability. nothing substantial. But hey that’s what you are too so it goes hand in hand.
in the beginning, all girls are attracted to the bad boy type. The alpha male type. Then something happens with most girls, they have a need for babies and a family, so everything changes for them, they now want stable providers (and being boring). Being fun and wild is no longer desireable due to lifestyle and hormonal changes.
Bottom line, girls will always be attracted to the alpha male. Those girls that don’t want to settle will continue to need that thrill and go after them. Girls that want stabile families will still be attracted to them (and probably fantasize) but they have no desire to go after them or want to sabotage their family (because they don’t need that thrill anymore).
I hope this puts things in perspective. Keep improving on yourself. That needs to be the priority. And through these threads I hope I can shed some light on this dynamic.
its really that simple. if you want to keep having fun without any family responsibilities then just make sure that you’re hooking up with girls that want the same thing. But expect chaos and instability. nothing substantial. But hey that’s what you are too so it goes hand in hand.
in the beginning, all girls are attracted to the bad boy type. The alpha male type. Then something happens with most girls, they have a need for babies and a family, so everything changes for them, they now want stable providers (and being boring). Being fun and wild is no longer desireable due to lifestyle and hormonal changes.
Bottom line, girls will always be attracted to the alpha male. Those girls that don’t want to settle will continue to need that thrill and go after them. Girls that want stabile families will still be attracted to them (and probably fantasize) but they have no desire to go after them or want to sabotage their family (because they don’t need that thrill anymore).
I hope this puts things in perspective. Keep improving on yourself. That needs to be the priority. And through these threads I hope I can shed some light on this dynamic.
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