"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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if you disagree with her......Tell her.
if you want to take her out.....tell her you are taking her out
if you want to have sex with her....then get her in the mood..and seal the deal.

if she is having problems with a bill....dont ignore it.....take care of it for her..dont pay it..but solve it.
if she is looking for a the bathroom....find it for her.

I could go on.

Ive been in a LTR for 10 months..and the last 2 have been the best..because ive really taken over as the leader and dominate force...she runs everything threw me.

basically I am saying this is all about being a strong willed, leading man.

they dont call it the leading man in a good role for nothing.

just be a strong man..and the women willl always repsect you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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spider-

your a nerd..who bows down to bullys on ss.net in a forum.

if I were you id walk myself off a bridge..and hope I can swim.


regardless I hope one day you stop making pathetic excuses on why you cant walk up to a girl and get a date.
 

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Friv, stop being so immature.

I know you want to be respected, but if you snap everytime somebody pulls your leg, nobody's going to listen. They are just going to join in and see if they can get you to break as well. You just become a laughing stock if you keep letting people control your emotions.

Spider has demonstrated through knowledge and response that he is capable of gaming women. He is here to fine tune his game, and motivate others.

Friv, you are respectful as a person. As a man though, that is another discussion completely. I can't label you, I can judge you though. Your method of speaking to people IS immature, it doesn't align with the regular mentality of a person who enjoys laughter, and seeks to learn. They don't like to hear the same thing touted over and over again. One of your biggest problems is that you seek attention.

"I just had my birthday, I am now 25"
"oh, just kidding, I won't bother you guys anymore"

Were you expecting sympathy or attention from that thread? When you say soemthing that draws sympathy from people, you are by definition being pathetic. Look up the word, and try to eliminate it from the way people view you.

It will help.

PS: It's senor fingers, not seinor;) just checkin who your heroes are on your myspace:D
 

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frivolousz21 said:
spider-
your a nerd..who bows down to bullys on ss.net in a forum.
i didn't know anybody was bullying me:confused: but what ever.

frivolousz21 said:
if I were you id walk myself off a bridge..and hope I can swim.
why would i wana do that.:confused:

frivolousz21 said:
regardless I hope one day you stop making pathetic excuses on why you cant walk up to a girl and get a date.
when i want it bad enough i'll do it.


ps: is that bastard born yat?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oh and just to be fair, i do agree with your thread

half of it any ways.

i'd never try to solve womans problems
i'd never help her find the bathroom (unless i was getting laid in it)


m a n= good
over baring man= bad
 

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its not about being inmature.

spider is a loser.

he is my age..23..he has sat on this board..and his reply to getting a women is..when I want it bad enuf


thats bullshyt, if he didnt want it that bad..he wouldnt be here everyday reading this stuff, posting on this board.

I dont need repsect from anyone on here..I dont give 2 fycks if he or anyone else here repsects me...

this place is filled with filler guys like him..


2nd. that thread was a joke....we all know they dont want me there till im 25..since there was a long lay off...I wrote that as a sarcasm that hey now im 25....so I figured westocoaster might have a smug funny return.


Spider is not capable of getting women..spider has never gotten a women.

its self admitted..if you read his posts he bashes himself and his game..then he finds humor in shooting down advice from guys, mostly me....I dont find it funny anymore.

he wont help himself..it almost makes me mad...atleast he admits he hasnt done it yet..and I really do wish him the best.

unlike the other 94 percent of frauds on here..atleast he admits he is still working at it.

but im sick of hearing he working at it..I know he wants to get laid or have a gf...why not get out there and do it.
 

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Although I don't agree with the 'bathroom' deal either OR solving her problems, I can see where you're getting at.

I read a lot of this material. I have read this site, I have read DeAngelo's book and Swinggcut's, Juggler's, Robert Greene's.. and a few more.

*this is because I am also interested and study psychology, and I think that if two genders should be together, a man should know how to act in order to cause that attractio...and no, I don't think I'm sad, heh. :)*

After reading all of this material, I have read different stuff and have seen different points of views from each writer and what worked for THEM (which is why I study their advice before I take it). But from reading all this, all of them have said the exact same thing. And that is be a man. A woman wants to feel like she is with a real man, who is on control of his feelings, the situations, has confidence, is able to take decisions, has confidence, etc. Women also want the MAN to be the leader in bed. They don't like it if the "man" asks them what they like and how they want it.

Women have an attraction for these men, because they are men. Why is it that the two genders are together? Because they are different. A man wants a woman that IS a female, and a woman wants a man who IS a male. They aren't attracted to girly man who show signs of insecurity or neediness...a man has to be a man and be strong, be able to control his emotions.

So yeah, every single writer said this - be a man (and a lot of other advice they all gave and they are correct). So yes, I do agree with you and understand what you mean, even though your examples aren't all valid in my mind. :)
 

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friv, Spider.. Look.. You two don’t see eye to eye, so instead of always getting into arguments with one another, why not just let each other be, and let each others opinions be? Stop this immature behavior and stop acting like little school kids at each others throats all the time! :trouble:
 
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