"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Woman Lack of Respect for You

Sayajin_Prince

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Some of you might not agree with me on this but did u ever noticed that girls treat you without respect whilst they treat other guy very well, have u noticed that treatment difference?

some reasons are the following:


a ) if you aren't good looking and you try to talk to a girl, she will treat u badly because she finds you ugly and unattractive, she will go for hot guys that are at the same level as she or even higher.


b) if you dont have confidence in yourself she will see that and she WILL treat u like a loser.

c) if u are not a leader, if u dont have charisma, if u are not a MAN and show your strenght she WILL walk over you and treat u like a loser.


if anyone wants to add some more go ahead, this is what i think are the major reasons u are treated like **** when compared to other guys.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Colossus

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Women find it very easy to love and give their whole hearts. It's as natural as breathing for them. Women were created, IMHO, to love, support, nurture, and balance man. Respect, however, is a different story. Women dont have the same concept of respect as men do. In men it is typically innate; most men have and live by an unwritten code of respect for other men and especially for women (maybe not so much the current generation, however). Because women are often fickle or flaky about what they want and what they say...especially young girls...respect for men and integrity in holding their word is rare and surprising. As I said, I think this is more often seen in a young girl ( not a woman).
 
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