"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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woman just got out of relationship.what my move?

silkkster

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well me and this woman have been friends - well more aquaintences, we talk only in class (we dont hang out or anything)..any ways - i know she likes me.... she was dating someone, i told her she should break up w him and go out w me because im a real man, and i know how to make a woman feel special (i told her that)... so she broke up w that guy - talked to her, said we need to go out for dinner or something, but when she is ready...

so baisically what should i do? - how long should i wait? or should i just go ahead and pursue.. until she pursues..?
thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kiz

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yea i'd just be careful about showing too much interest...if she wants you, she'll make it known.
 

penkitten

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i think it depends on what you are looking for out of this girl.
she might not be ready to jump back in another relationship so soon, just as you wouldnt be.
 
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