Winter BC WEEK 4

[Al Moh.]

Week 4.

Al Mohsetax
Impact
Sir Shinra

Is this it? Kind of dissappointing. So this week is in my oppinion the most important one. Make or break. Let's go.



If anyone is interesting in sharing e-mail, aim, icq, msn, whatever, you may post it right here.


This week goes until next thursday evening. That should be enough time for you to finish the exercises.

Now, it's your responsibility to complete every week on time. You have to:
- Do the reading
- Complete the exercises
- Write a Report at the end of the week
You may:
- Listen to the music (recommended to get into the mood )
- Report any time during the week in this thread
- Ask questions in this thread
- Give tips
If you learn anything new that you think is valuable to others, you are encouraged to post this inside the Tips-Section.

In your Report at the end of the week please state if you were successful completing the week or not. If yes, I am going to move your name to the next week. If no you can either stop or give yourself more time. However, I am not going to take care of you anymore in terms of moving you name further. You have to organise yourself then but can still use this thread.

That's about it as general information goes.

The link to the BC one more time:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
or word Version:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.doc

There you will find each weeks reading material, music picks and exercises. I am just going to repeat the exercises in short form in this threads.

Exercises:

1) Ten rejections.


Good luck DJs!

 

[Sir Shinra]

Already finished week 4. Here's the link to my report in the week 3 thread.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155138&page=2

 

[Impact]

Already finished week 4. Here's the link to my report in the week 3 thread.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155138&page=2

Way to go dude!!

I also got 6 rejections already, but I don't ask for the number, I tell them we should go for a drink or smth, and if she refuses, I count it as a rejection (cause there is no point in asking for the number afterwords anyway)

The reason I don't want to ask for the number is because it is what a guy would usually do and it would put me at unnecessary risk.

I have 2 numbers and 2 emails (one of the girls was a 9!!! one of the few HB9s that I ever approached)

By the way, what I learned this week so far is that when geting rejected, don't think about it, but rather ACT right away and try to find a NEW target as soon as possible - it is very important to keep the approaching state and that is achieved by approaching a lot of girls. Thinking about a rejection right away is counterproductive, of course it is important to analyze it and learn from it, but I do it at home afterwords.

 

[rushing dude 123]

if u make it to week 7 ill join u guys. well thats if u get there.

 

[Impact]

I'm done. This week was the easiest ... gathering rejections in a good goal to become immune to them. I've done more than 20 approaches this week, but got only 11 rejections, 2 emails and the others I didnt even try to close because of different reasons. I'm getting better at talking to the HB, approached 2 9's this week and am really excited about the next ones.
i'm gonna have to gather some digits though for the next week

What I tried to work on this week:
1. Talking LOUDLY!!!!!
2. Approaching many chicks (in order to get into state)

I can't seem to be able to build rapport and attraction during the approach, cause most of my targets are chicks in the mall who are usually moving and I have only little time to talk to them. I'll have to work on that.

How are you doing, Al Moh?

 

[Al Moh.]

Congratz guys. I'm afraid I didn't make it, the BC wasn't even on my mind this week, too much to do...

I'll stay here until I make it, good luck to you guys in week 5.