"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wing Guidelines

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Master Don Juan
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Here's some GUIDELINES, their not rules.

. The person who opens has first dibs.

. 2 guys talking to one girl gives her too much power, if he opened face your wing.

. Don't try attracting the girl your wing is talking to. If it's his target don't jump in with teasing, c/f etc. Chumps will usually stand together and each try to chat up a girl.

. Show your wing which girl is your target, "she's my little sister".

. Throw in a DHV, "you should see the body on him, he could be a fireman!"

. Don't silently potter off while your wing is in set, it makes her a prize. Say "man stay here a second!", if she's a cool girl say "I'll be right back, you better look after my friend".

. If a girl is rude to your wing, approach her and say, you were rude to my friend (if he agrees).

. When you can see she's flirting with your wing, say "you can't have him, he's mine!" (calibrate it).

. Keep **** blocks talking. Talk about anything, even **** like, what's your fave cerial?

. If you've given up on your target indicate that she's open for dibs.



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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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