So I took this girl out for the first time tonight - we met at a bar and club a few wks ago. Dinner was good - good rapport and 70/30 talking.
Afterwards for drinks, we playfully discussed our first (steamy hot dance sessions!) time meeting at the club bar and I got to do some c&f and we had some fun with the convo. We kissed at the drinks place.
Then, after a really nice walk, all seems good, I bring her to my place where - BAM - at the door to my apt. she states she won't go it, so I had to do some convincing (I know I should have ended the conversation right there), but I was going to be calm and persistent. So she came in after about one simple "but why" from me (in which she stated: *I don't know you that well*).
But, here's the million dollar question: If she doesn't know me that well, but decides to french kiss in a bar and on the walk, and a few weeks ago get freaky on the dance floor, then what is going on here? Tonight drinks had *NOTHING* to do with it.
So she spends 1h at my place, we just talk, blah. I make 2 moves on her and I realize she isn't going to stay the night or go further than kissing. So we say our goodbye and she says, directed to me: *Call me *
I politely said: "I have a phone, if you want to you can call me" (this makes the point clear that it is up to *her* now to show her interest, as I sure as hell did tonight, with not much gained.
Any advice here? Should I just forget about her? Should I realize that even after a few long french kisses and nice rapport that it might take a few days to get into the girls pants? Or was she just not into me (which just makes me question girls completely).
Thanks,
bb.
Afterwards for drinks, we playfully discussed our first (steamy hot dance sessions!) time meeting at the club bar and I got to do some c&f and we had some fun with the convo. We kissed at the drinks place.
Then, after a really nice walk, all seems good, I bring her to my place where - BAM - at the door to my apt. she states she won't go it, so I had to do some convincing (I know I should have ended the conversation right there), but I was going to be calm and persistent. So she came in after about one simple "but why" from me (in which she stated: *I don't know you that well*).
But, here's the million dollar question: If she doesn't know me that well, but decides to french kiss in a bar and on the walk, and a few weeks ago get freaky on the dance floor, then what is going on here? Tonight drinks had *NOTHING* to do with it.
So she spends 1h at my place, we just talk, blah. I make 2 moves on her and I realize she isn't going to stay the night or go further than kissing. So we say our goodbye and she says, directed to me: *Call me *
I politely said: "I have a phone, if you want to you can call me" (this makes the point clear that it is up to *her* now to show her interest, as I sure as hell did tonight, with not much gained.
Any advice here? Should I just forget about her? Should I realize that even after a few long french kisses and nice rapport that it might take a few days to get into the girls pants? Or was she just not into me (which just makes me question girls completely).
Thanks,
bb.