"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yea it's no secret that FEZ is getting tail. Having dated several hollywood scarlets and just a few weeks ago he was sited with Minka Kelly, as in derek jeter's ex Minka Kelly. She IS sexy. As in she defines the word.

And how about Pauly D? I hear women on the east coast go crazy for Pauly D. Which makes you wonder, could it be possible to ride the wave they (or any other male celebrity or pubic figure) are creating? Have you ever thought of that? Adopting THEIR wardrobe, hair due, style. After all, there isn't enough Fezes and Pauly Ds to go around.


Some food for thought. Enjoy :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Haven't thought about that. I just go with my own style. I have heard though of lookalikes trying to get tail by posing as the actors they look like and sometimes it works for them. That's both funny and sad.

And yes, there are enough Pauly D's to go around. TOO many, in fact. (i live in NY)
 

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Style can convey status and some styles can really make you look a point or 2 higher in attractiveness. Try it out and see what works for you.
 

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SharinganUser said:
Screech probably got a lot of ass too, it doesn't really mean anything.
Screech got no ass and is now a severely depressed alcholic. He was in my town doing stand up comedy and was basically booed off stage. I introduced myself to him after the show and he came off as really weird, strange and pathetic.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Young Stallion said:
Screech got no ass and is now a severely depressed alcholic. He was in my town doing stand up comedy and was basically booed off stage. I introduced myself to him after the show and he came off as really weird, strange and pathetic.

That is how he is now, but it wouldn't surprise me if he got a lot of tail back in the 90's when he was on tv. There are a lot of women that'll put out even for D list celebs.
 

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ladyzman said:
Yea it's no secret that FEZ is getting tail. Having dated several hollywood scarlets and just a few weeks ago he was sited with Minka Kelly, as in derek jeter's ex Minka Kelly. She IS sexy. As in she defines the word.

And how about Pauly D? I hear women on the east coast go crazy for Pauly D. Which makes you wonder, could it be possible to ride the wave they (or any other male celebrity or pubic figure) are creating? Have you ever thought of that? Adopting THEIR wardrobe, hair due, style. After all, there isn't enough Fezes and Pauly Ds to go around.


Some food for thought. Enjoy :)

The art is called NLP, it is when you take idiosynrecies of people and apply it to your own every day life.

I have modelled after James Bond, Jon Bon Jovi, Macgyver, Patrick Jane and Dirty Harry extensively both physically and mentally.

I have notice that most women like the attitude of James Bond, speaking mannerisms of Patrick Jane and clothing style of Bon Jovi.....they do love talking to the Macgyver persona about their relationship problems!..lol.
 

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Young Stallion said:
The art is called NLP, it is when you take idiosynrecies of people and apply it to your own every day life.

I have modelled after James Bond, Jon Bon Jovi, Macgyver, Patrick Jane and Dirty Harry extensively both physically and mentally.

I have notice that most women like the attitude of James Bond, speaking mannerisms of Patrick Jane and clothing style of Bon Jovi.....they do love talking to the Macgyver persona about their relationship problems!..lol.
No it's called being stylish, following fashion trends that are in. That's why some celebs are called trend setters. Lets not give all the credit to NLP now. Or any for that matter haha


And SharinganUser how would you know D list celebs get laid? Are you one? Hard to believe skreech got laid, with that super dorky image he had. But I'm sure his fortune got him some tail. Just hope he didn't blow all of it on sex lol.
 
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