"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guitar, I felt the same way when I first broke up, these women leave you feeling like a shadow of your former self. But in time you'll feel better trust me. I hate stupid quotes or saying but it gets better in time.

Leprechaun,

Truthfully, I don't want any revenge on her or any person but it feels good as fvck to be able to elevate myself in terms of my goals and have ex girlfriends and people I'm not too fond of knowing, in a humble/subtle way of course.

I vacillate between wanting her to feel bad for what she has done to me and that she pushed another good potential relationship away and that I don't want her to know anything about me. But to be mature, Ill pick the latter. Thanks for your words :rockon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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