"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wild suggestion here: We should develop a coach system

Shivastorm_88

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A guy from work gave me this idea (although him it wasn't related to the game)... We should create a list, those of us that need a coach to help us attain our short-term and long-term goals, and those of us that are willing to coach. I guess a person could coach more than one person, or also could be coached and coach at the same time.

By coaching I mean: Once the person has decided what his short-term goals and long-term goals are, and how to attain them, the coach can provide feedback, give suggestions, things to do, etc. Once the person actually start working on those goals, keep a journal, and again the coach can be there to motivate, give feedback, tips, etc. This journal can be made public (preferably) or private if the one working on his goals does not feel comfortable about the whole community knowing about it.

I think this could really help the newer members here, or those who are still struggling with their social skills/approach skills (like myself -_-), and for the more advanced users, it's an (almost) sure way to put your knowledge to good use and to know what it won't go unheard and ignored by people randomly asking for advice but that end up doing what they wanted to do all along.


If you are interested, let me know! And let me know if you would like to coach or to be coached. The first step would be to create the list, the second would be for the coachees to create their list of goals and how to attain them so that the coach can review them, and afterward, let the game begin!

And if you are interested in this, please be serious. Don't give up after 2-3 weeks, it would really suck for your coach (or for your coachee)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Shivastorm_88

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errr 41 views no replies, I was hoping this idea would work a bit better than that hahah... Really, no one is interested? not even considering it?
 

Htienvu

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Anything to help beginners like me is great :). I am reading the articles everyday, learning new things everyday and put it to use whenever I can. lets see what the more experience DJs say.
 

chiyeung

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I would be definitely happy to help a beginner. I can see myself working with one person though. Not 100
 

Packers2010

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i am stating a skype group. but in the end no one wanted to join. i think what the problem is. people need to do this stuff on there own.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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