True. I didn't mention either gender being favoured though. Just my suspicion about her behaviour and what she could be up toThe person with the most money prior to the marriage gets raped, has nothing to do with gender.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.