Why Would A girl Ask this?

[amnbyrd]

I was chatting with a girl on hotornot.com and she told me her myspace link and said I should look her up-to with I replied I deleted my page on myspace a few weeks back. So the convo eventually moved to me saying that I have a phone though(I dont remember exactly how I worded it but it was jokingly implying that if she wanted to keep in contact that we could exchange numbers instead of myspace. She was like is that your way of asking for my number-and I said yes-she then gave it to me. Afterwards she asked me why I wanted her number-I gave her another funny response saying that she seemed cool/like a good person and I would call her up if I was drunk and needed a ride. She laughed and the convo moved on. But why would a girl ever ask a guy why he wanted her number? How do you guys think I reacted?

 

[Alkali]

Hotornot.com...lol

There are too many reasons to list.

In short, you're overanalyzing. Hakuna Matata!

Here are a few:

The Good
-She wanted to confirm your interest in her.
-She just wanted to hear you say that you liked her.
-She enjoys games (Is this good? I like it, but you're not me, so dunno?)

The Bad
-Well, there's no reason to callously scare you. If you got her number, she wanted you to have it.

 

[yama600rr]

haha, you're funny dude, why are you tripping over little ****, it's nothing!!!!!

 

[DJDamage]

But why would a girl ever ask a guy why he wanted her number? How do you guys think I reacted?

Unless this girl is really gulliable, she knows why you want her number. You handled it fine. However be aware you might be dealing with myspace AW.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Afterwards she asked me why I wanted her number-I gave her another funny response saying that she seemed cool/like a good person and I would call her up if I was drunk and needed a ride. She laughed and the convo moved on. But why would a girl ever ask a guy why he wanted her number? How do you guys think I reacted?

In the interest of constructive criticism, I think you could have done better. Is this girl local? As in, there's a realistic chance of seeing her? If so, the point of getting the number is to set up an in-person meeting. So have one picked out when you ask for the number. When this happens again, don't make any jokes or apologies about your intentions. Don't say "b/c ur hot and I wanna date u" but instead, something like, "b/c I like doing ____ and you should come with me sometime." If she is receptive, you can cut right to the chase then and there, "oh hey, there's a ____ I'm going to on ____. Come with me."

Any girl who is online will have a short attention span. It's ten times better to be too agressive than too passive. Most women, or at least the type of women we want who will give up sex quickly, want to be swept off their feet by a dominant man. The more dominant you are, the less slvtty she feels, and the more slvtty she will act. This is an amazing and wonderful trait that I love about women, put there by either God or evolution, depending on your beliefs, for the betterment of all humankind.

 

[joey2times]

I was chatting with a girl on hotornot.com and she told me her myspace link and said I should look her up-to with I replied I deleted my page on myspace a few weeks back. So the convo eventually moved to me saying that I have a phone though(I dont remember exactly how I worded it but it was jokingly implying that if she wanted to keep in contact that we could exchange numbers instead of myspace. She was like is that your way of asking for my number-and I said yes-she then gave it to me. Afterwards she asked me why I wanted her number-I gave her another funny response saying that she seemed cool/like a good person and I would call her up if I was drunk and needed a ride. She laughed and the convo moved on. But why would a girl ever ask a guy why he wanted her number? How do you guys think I reacted?

She's asking if you're looking for phone sex. I don't know why, but when you ask for a women's phone number online, they automatically assume you want phone sex.

 

[amnbyrd]

She's asking if you're looking for phone sex. I don't know why, but when you ask for a women's phone number online, they automatically assume you want phone sex.

WTF?? lol
ARe you serious?

 

[amnbyrd]

Thanks for the great advice Bible Belt-she's in the same town btw