"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why Women Began to Suck

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Remember Hillary never made a big deal out of Bill leaving kum stains on Monica's blue dress!! She had reasons not to sabotage him and knew what effect that would have on her political career. Who would Hillary be with out Bill?
I would say if your married and some slight transgressions are part of your "game", make sure she is aware of it upfront. And minimize it. Sometimes these folks have some bs to do to "fit in"...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Grewd- so what happens to the guy that has improved himself and is a top level competitor and still has difficulties? Whats the solution to that problem?

Its like the US Military giving its technology to foreign nations. We were at one time the greatest Military in the world. Now days we ship used F-16's to almost any foreign nation that will pay money. The F-16 is no longer superior technology, however it gives capabilities to nations that never had such making them more effective than ever before. Now these foreign nations can reverse engineer our technology and improve upon it. Eventually we will have some serious competitors on our hands. It won't be so easy. The price to play will go up. That's how competition works. I've been a part of it for a long time and still am.

You certainly don't retain power by giving it away. You keep what you learn, your keep the technology you develop, and you try not to inform them. You don't want to fix their problems(give them power) because they will use it against you and that's exactly what is happening.

There is a point where you can only keep improving so much. The better you get, the smaller advancements you make. Then what?
I've said enough. I'm giving you the F-16, but I'll keep my superior technology. Guess you'll have to reverse engineer my point to understand it, then improve it yourself. I don't want to fix your problems, you'll just use it against me and I don't want to create competitors.

Basically I won't share the solution, you're on your own because that's the world you want to live in. Good luck with that though.
 

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Not necessarily. Many of the "hot babes" you think are hot are just regular females with makeup a certain clothes and a certain swagger. That's the difference.
I am very aware of this. It sucks because most women aren't naturally pretty. I mean a little bit is fine I suppose, but those guidettes who just cake it on sadden me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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