mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I just think it's just their perspective. The desires of the Freudian id are subconscious anyway, they're not just going to volunteer that information up immediately. They're going to tell you their idealism and unfortunately a lot of that idealism is self-referential.
Oh, and they will "comply" with their group consensus. So if whatever with you they might have thought could be "better", if they group didn't see it that way, they will go with the wishes of the group.I think I remember one poster here once called his mom years after, telling her everything she said was bullsh!t(in relations to deal with woman), her answer was "yeah, but that is what we are supose to tell"
thing is guys, remember woman will do what feels better, not what is better and right