Why me?(dealing with female AFC)

[Kirro]

My current job sucks & I'm making preparations to bounce. I work in retail, I have to wear a ridiculous shirt, cater to the many annoying customers & take orders from people who are usually inferior to me. The job is hard to deal with but I've stuck around for over a year & I think I've overstayed my welcome. One major problem is that several attractive females will pass through the store every single day however gaming these chicks is not advisable as A) Could cost you your job if they don't like you B) You're wearing a stupid shirt & you're working a low status job, there's a really high chance she won't like you. Another problem is that at my store they are only 2 decent chicks working there...-__-. However the biggest problem is this past her prime, used up, desperate, overly aggressive old chick.

I've complained about this b!tch before & that was probably last year, this chick is STILL trying. A couple weeks ago she found some clever excuse to place her hands on my azz cheeks, she tries to walk arm in arm with me, embarrassing me & she's always trying to be flirty/sexual. I completely shut down around her, there's no charisma, no showing off, no aggression, no masculinity, no sexuality, I give her nothing, I make sure there's plenty of awkward pauses, I make sure I cringe when she touches me, I give her blank or puzzled facial expressions, I try my best to be as bland & boring as possible so she has nothing to go with yet.......it doesn't work, she doesn't give up. I'm not even being aloof or indifferent in some hard to get act, I'm just trying to be the opposite of who I am with chicks I'm attracted to.

Now you guys are probably wondering why I haven't made a bee line for Human Resources yet. Thing is, she's been working there forever, she's a chick & she's vindictive. Most likely, nothing major will happen & she will try her best to ruin me. Outright rejecting her could make for a very very horrible work environment for me. I basically try my best to avoid her which unfortunately is never 100%.

There was a point in which I thought all she wanted was attention, all she wanted was the validation that she's still wanted & to feel sexy & she didn't really want to bang me. Unfortunately I'd be proven wrong, the only other person she's like this with is one of my managers. We're both fairly tall, black & can be considered handsome. This same manager also told me a bit about her history...turns out she's fvcked two dudes who have worked in the same store previously.....in one instance at the FVCKING STORE!!!

Her last dealing ended because the guy said she was getting too clingy.

You want to have an archetype for the AFC chick, this cvnt fits the description.

- Old(late 40s, early 50s) - Her face looks so old & tired & even at my age she was probably decent at best.
- She's got the old woman flabby arm thing going on...losing muscle, not even diet & exercise can help now.
- She tries to keep the fat off but its a losing battle, it also doesn't help that she eats fast food regularly.
- Doesn't give up, either she's a moron when it comes to reading interest in a man or her ego won't let her believe she isn't wanted.
- She has a huge azz...now for a black dude this is usually a major plus...for her it isn't, there's no telling the amount of cellulite, dents & wrinkles on that booty right now...

I can't wait to get the hell out. Hopefully all this can end on a relatively peaceful note.

 

[Warrior74]

Well at least you have another manager on your side. I had an older woman like this when I was younger who was MY manager. She kept harassing me. I tried shutting it down like you did, nada. So then I started talking about every hot girl that came in and invited hot girls I knew to come to the store and visit. She would bytch about skinny chics when they left the store. When she made passes I would tell her that it was inappropriate and I didn't appreciate it, with a ****y grin. I was the worlds most polite A hole. I ended up quitting for a better job, but she hated me near the end and would have fired me soon, it was coming. Get out while you can.

 

[Kirro]

Good sh!t on you escaping, not only am I doing my own search, I have friends with connects helping me out. October cannot find me at this trash job.

The funny thing about this is that there's a truck driver who works for our company that is head over heels in love for this chick, the poor guy doesn't even want to try anything because he wants to get his money right, she doesn't even register his existence. Yet young guys like my manager & myself could smash for free but we really don't want to.

This chick truly baffles me, by some insane troll logic she thinks that she deserves to have some young stud, especially after sleeping with two guys who are anything but studs. How is it that as she downgrades in value she expects to trade up in a mate?

 

[f283000]

Kirro, try a different approach. What you're doing seems to be making you even more attractive to her. Ignoring and playing hard to get makes you a challenge to women thus more attractive.

You need to use their own tactics against them. Start calling her "sister" or "sista" or "aunt." It might sound silly to you but it has a deep psychological hit to their psyche. You are letting them know that you see them as family rather than a possible sexual parter. Subconsciously this will turn them away from you because they will see a relation with you as sort of incest.

It's no different then women telling you they see you as a friend or that she thinks you're a nice guy. Just keep repeting that to her and soon enough her subconscious mind will get the message. Don't try to ignore her or act different just act normal but instead call her "aunt susie" or "sister susie" or whatever her name is.

I do this at work myself with all the fat chicks where I call them sisters. All women I want to create attraction with at work: I kino them, call them by their name, treat them like children, neg them, eye contact + check them out up and down and making sure they notice me checking them out etc etc.

Women I DON'T WANT TO CREATE ATTRACTION WITH: I call them "sisters" or sista, I call them aunts (the old ones). This is setting up a contract subconsciously and verbally that I could never possibly elope with them. They get the message soon enough with repetition.

Remember that women do this to you all the time. When they call you nice/friend/sweet that's they're way of blocking you.

 

[Kirro]

Kirro, try a different approach. What you're doing seems to be making you even more attractive to her. Ignoring and playing hard to get makes you a challenge to women thus more attractive.

That's the thing, I'm not playing hard to get, for her I'm IMPOSSIBLE to get.

You need to use their own tactics against them. Start calling her "sister" or "sista" or "aunt." It might sound silly to you but it has a deep psychological hit to their psyche. You are letting them know that you see them as family rather than a possible sexual parter. Subconsciously this will turn them away from you because they will see a relation with you as sort of incest.

This makes sense. At first I figured I'd overload her with attention to scare her off in the most beta way possible however seeing how old & desperate she is I'd say that move would backfire.

It's no different then women telling you they see you as a friend or that she thinks you're a nice guy. Just keep repeting that to her and soon enough her subconscious mind will get the message. Don't try to ignore her or act different just act normal but instead call her "aunt susie" or "sister susie" or whatever her name is.

I'm gonna use this but she's kinda ghetto so I may get some form of volatile reaction, she'll also try to backtrack to cover herself up.

I do this at work myself with all the fat chicks which I call them sisters. All women I want to create attraction with at work: I kino them, call them by their name, treat them like children, neg them, eye contact + check them out up and down and making sure they notice me checking them out

Yeah I do this with any chicks I like as well. Now when I'm in new environments I'll have a new tactic to make things more comfortable for myself.

Women I DON'T WANT TO CREATE ATTRACTION WITH: I call them "sisters" or sista, I call them aunts

How did you come up with such an effective tactic?

 

[f283000]

That's the thing, I'm not playing hard to get, for her I'm IMPOSSIBLE to get.

And that's why she wants you. You can either do it the nasty way (telling her to f*** off, that she's disgusting and you would never sleep with her) or you can do it the nice way. You can give her a taste of her own female medicine and friend zone her by using the sister/aunt tactic I gave you.

You gotta remember that women don't respond to reason or logic. You can't fight her with that. You gotta fight her on a psychological level that will hit her emotions. If she gets the feeling that you see her as a sister/aunt that will be the end of her trying to bang you. She wouldn't bang her little brother or nephew.

Keep me updated on how this goes.

 

[Alle_Gory]

How is it that as she downgrades in value she expects to trade up in a mate?

Mostly the ego getting out of control. Her self image must be fairly warped at this point. Those other guys she had sex with, I'm sure what you see and what she saw are two separate images.

The beer goggles go on to protect the ego when necessary.

 

[Kirro]

And that's why she wants you. You can either do it the nasty way (telling her to f*** off, that she's disgusting and you would never sleep with her) or you can do it the nice way. You can give her a taste of her own female medicine and friend zone her by using the sister/aunt tactic I gave you.

You gotta remember that women don't respond to reason or logic. You can't fight her with that. You gotta fight her on a psychological level that will hit her emotions. If she gets the feeling that you see her as a sister/aunt that will be the end of her trying to bang you. She wouldn't bang her little brother or nephew.

Keep me updated on how this goes.

I'll definitely keep you posted on how this goes. Hopefully something absurd doesn't happen.

@Alle Gory - The silly thing about all this is, I rather be harshly rejected by several attractive females closer to my age than be hounded by some old, unappealing cvnt. I find all this to be an insult. We've got a tall(6'4) black guy working with us, sure he's skinny, missing a tooth & not as handsome but he's tall right? Chicks dig height right? RIGHT? Why me??

 

[Kirro]

Update: I put in my 2 week notice of resignation today. I don't have anything really lined up but its one of those 50/50 gambles. I'm tired of the entire environment, my last week will be my vacation. So its sink or swim now.