"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why is "Woman-ese" censored?

Deep Dish

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One more note, apparently the trademark owner is Jason Claiborne. He has his book on Amazon:

http://www.amazon.com/How-Speak-Wom@nese-Decoding-Message/dp/1425949959
(notice the @ symbol)

If to Mr. Claiborne the key to successful relationships is semantics of communication then he's on par with Dr. John Gray (who does not actually hold a PhD) in idiocy. By the way, the book is self-published.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Man, this guy is annoying. He sued Tucows.com over their domain jase.net for trademark violation simply because he has a trademark for JASE, his bottled water company since 1989. The Tucows domain was registered two years before the Claiborne trademark was registered. Tucows should have sued Claiborne for a trademark violation.

Claiborne also has a website, www.jasonclaiborne.com, which is no longer functional. Hmmm... so with a failing self-published book (ranked #600,000-something on Amazon.com), a failed lawsuit, a failed domain, and probably a failed bottled water company, it appears I was right about Mr. Claiborne's "Take that Wom@nese off Sosuave!" as desperation. He had flimsy basis for his previous lawsuit and he still has flimsy basis for his current threats. He sent a cease & desist letter to a Christian-based forum for simply mentioning Wom@nese.

Damn, he's desperate. I wonder if his legal desperations have any correlation to his personal life.
 

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that'd be awesome if that book was written by Pook :)
 

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Deep Dish said:
He sued Tucows.com over their domain jase.net for trademark violation simply because he has a trademark for JASE, his bottled water company since 1989.
I'd sue those pricks too if I bothered to expend the resources...

Deep Dish said:
The Tucows domain was registered two years before the Claiborne trademark was registered.
Irrelevant. The WIPO rules are quite clear. The rights of IP owners prevail over what I consider the criminal actions of domain squatters and domain resellers. Many domain squatters use Tucows to bulk register thousands and thousands of domain names as hostages. Those whose IP rights are not recognized by national or international law are forced to pay $10,000 USD or more for a domain name. Most domain squatters are actually located in the Cayman Islands. I wish the U.S. government would shut those pricks down. And it's fairly easy to do, too. It's just as easy as isolating any country from accessing the Internet outside their geographical borders.

Deep Dish said:
Tucows should have sued Claiborne for a trademark violation.
They would have if they could. Registering a domain name is not the equivalent of a registering trademark rights.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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