"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why Is The Modern Dating Market A Mess?

Poonstra

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It's a bit lengthy, but well worth it, especially for newer members. Those that have been here longer are aware of most of the points discussed.
Anyway, I like Chris's interview style and his guest is informed about the subject. Enjoy the watch.

 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It all goes back to SIMPS, they are the sole reason for this whole mess.

They overinflated women's egos both online and irl
 

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Online dating has really really f@cked us , because even with social media simps still need to have some idea who the girl is too start orbiting her

With OLD men can literally spend all day liking and messaging any woman anywhere in the world

its freighting
 
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