"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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why is everything being moved?!

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come on. this is ridiculous. just about every post is getting moved.

i bet even this post gets moved!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Possibly because some of the discussions on here are don't equate to maturity -> discussion where people are posting really dumb sh*t 99% of the time.
 

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Let me just add that sexual topics, balding, music, current events and other such topics belong in the Anything else forum and will be moved there.

And yes, this post does belong in the Anything else forum. It's not personal.
 

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All due respect Paradox, but if "balding" is not a "problem unique to older and more mature men", then what is?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Actually, there does seem to be a problem with too many threads being moved and I am looking into it.

Azanon, Yes you are right that balding is a issue for the Mature Man. Most of the time I would rather see threads dealing with medical issues and causes of balding in the health forum.

Balding as it relates to ones ability to meet and date women should stay in the MM forum.
 

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ok...... I haven't had a problem with it lately, but I don't start that many threads either.
 

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I moved all those threads because as far as I was concerned, they were not dealing with "problems, situations, and techniques UNIQUE to older and more mature men". Furthermore, my opinion is that random threads posted in the forum being there simply due to the poster being over 25 would would make the mature man forum the same as the discussion forum. So my view is that we should strive for quality over quantity.

However, given the negative reaction, obviously my view did not jive with everyone elses, and I won't move threads as enthusiastically.

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