TheCharmingGuy
Senior Don Juan
At a certain point in many a budding Don Juan’s career as a lady killer, he has become too immersed in the game. The play, the strategy, the upgrading of his arsenal of witty things to say and sexy things to do becomes his lifestyle. His mantra centers around getting the next girl, and the next girl, and the next, until all he thinks about from morning until night is how he is going to achieve his next female prize.
And yet, this guy is at a disadvantage in the dating game. He works for every single one of the women he goes for, handing her all the power and putting himself fully at the mercy of her shutdown. By giving her this immense power, he eliminates her need to commit to anything, and she is able to dispose of him at her leisure.
These men are, at best, simps. They have no life outside of women, no hobbies, interests, other friends, or even interesting stories, because all his stories are about other girls, and nobody wants to hear about them. All he has left to offer a woman is attention, which although all females crave it, is short-lived and the woman will soon move on to another guy.
This man’s fatal mistake was not having a life.
Having interests and hobbies outside of women is essential to attracting them. You must have interests that will cause you to meet women as well. Do you have a dog? Walk it through a neighborhood where other people walk their dogs or exercise. Do you sing? Play the saxophone, perhaps? Have a real interest in spelunking? It doesn’t matter what your other interests are, if you truly enjoy it, women will find that attractive.
One of the things a woman finds the most attractive in a man, sometimes even more than the exalted “confidence” factor, is passion. If a man is passionate about something, the woman will assume that he will also be passionate in other areas of his life (his dating life, for example). So it is crucial that you have a hobby that you actually enjoy. Don’t try to be interesting by doing something you’re not actually good at or interested in. A woman will definitely notice, and flag you as fake.
The best part about this is, if you are living a great life, you will naturally attract women. They do almost all the work for YOU, will approach YOU, and will chase YOU instead of you having to convince them that you have something in common. In fact, if you meet a girl while pursuing your own lifestyle and interests, you already have something in common, which makes it that much easier for you to ask them out (or that much more likely that they will ask you).
Good luck, and may the Don Juan Force be with you!
And yet, this guy is at a disadvantage in the dating game. He works for every single one of the women he goes for, handing her all the power and putting himself fully at the mercy of her shutdown. By giving her this immense power, he eliminates her need to commit to anything, and she is able to dispose of him at her leisure.
These men are, at best, simps. They have no life outside of women, no hobbies, interests, other friends, or even interesting stories, because all his stories are about other girls, and nobody wants to hear about them. All he has left to offer a woman is attention, which although all females crave it, is short-lived and the woman will soon move on to another guy.
This man’s fatal mistake was not having a life.
Having interests and hobbies outside of women is essential to attracting them. You must have interests that will cause you to meet women as well. Do you have a dog? Walk it through a neighborhood where other people walk their dogs or exercise. Do you sing? Play the saxophone, perhaps? Have a real interest in spelunking? It doesn’t matter what your other interests are, if you truly enjoy it, women will find that attractive.
One of the things a woman finds the most attractive in a man, sometimes even more than the exalted “confidence” factor, is passion. If a man is passionate about something, the woman will assume that he will also be passionate in other areas of his life (his dating life, for example). So it is crucial that you have a hobby that you actually enjoy. Don’t try to be interesting by doing something you’re not actually good at or interested in. A woman will definitely notice, and flag you as fake.
The best part about this is, if you are living a great life, you will naturally attract women. They do almost all the work for YOU, will approach YOU, and will chase YOU instead of you having to convince them that you have something in common. In fact, if you meet a girl while pursuing your own lifestyle and interests, you already have something in common, which makes it that much easier for you to ask them out (or that much more likely that they will ask you).
Good luck, and may the Don Juan Force be with you!
