Why does this happen??

[NSUballer]

I just started to realize that whenever i go out and really TRY to hookup with some chic, if find its harder. I mean i get a mindset before i even walk in the door to pull a HB7+. It seems like when i TRY and pick up a chic its harder than when i dont give a ****.

The other night i went out with three of my boys(2 got gfs) to a club. We were just going there to drink some beer and hang out after practice. Well we are all just sittin at the bar bullsh!ttin and whatever and the three hotties(HB8+) come and sit right next to me. Me im just bull****tin wit my boys and drinkin saw them sit down and didnt really pay much attention cuz i wasnt really thinkin about it. This HB8 just starts talkin to me out of the blue, i didnt even say anything to her. So me being outgoing i start talkin and everything is goin smooth( im still not even trying to pick her up im just talkin like i would talk to a friend) So i talk her up a lil bit and keep talkin to my boys. A few minutes later she grabs me and pulls me to the dance floor. Shes grindin all over me i mean like hard and then we end up makin out right there on the dance floor. Anyways i got her to come home with me later on and we just hung out and fell asleep. Boring I know.

The point of this post is why when i i try to pick up a chic its harder than when i dont try? Does this happen to anybody else?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

It's because you are trying....... Something in your body language is probably setting off the women's natural defense, because instead of trying to go out and have a good time, you are deliberately out to get laid.
When you're relaxed and easy going, and don't care about the outcome, you will succeed....

You can't pickup chicks when you give off a predatory vibe. When you're out having fun and not taking anything serious, you will automatically become more attractive.

Just chill out

 

[NSUballer]

My game works when i do try just not all the time.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

That's like asking how come you can't bat 1000 whenever you play baseball.

you win some you lose some. Accept it.... Not every girl you approach will be into you.