"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why Does My Ex Gf Hate Me When...

SexinEar

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Why does my ex gf hate me when her other ex boyfriend before me is like a fvck buddie with her and has always been (excluding the month I was with this girl.) When I see her and say hi just trying to be nice she gives me a dirty look and turns away. I have greater problems than this, I just find this really weird, the other ex bf can get his **** sucked every now and then and i'm like hated. Weird.

I made posts about this girl before saying I didn't want her as a gf amd I still wouldn't, I kinda wanted to be like friends with benifits and well it swerved to gf and shure i got pushed into it, but i got ass out of it. Anyone make sense outta this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maybe you screwed up so bad and pissed her off and acted like a huge c*ck?
 

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Is this a joke!!

Look champ, its better this way. I absolutly do not want a hoe, and by the looks of it, she seems that way. I can tell that you don't have many other options when it comes to girls, thats why your still holding back on a girl you've known for 1 month.

You deserve better than her, at least that's what you should be saying to yourself. Meet new girls that are CLEAN!

Just be thankful you don't have a STD, the amount of new members to the STD club is incredible and its still rising.

Image the life you want to live right now...........


Visualize it. See how you want to act, what you want to dress like, where you want to be, and in what state your in.


Now you have a goal to reach for.


Your are welcome.
 

SexinEar

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Anomalous said:
Is this a joke!!

Look champ, its better this way. I absolutly do not want a hoe, and by the looks of it, she seems that way. I can tell that you don't have many other options when it comes to girls, thats why your still holding back on a girl you've known for 1 month.

You deserve better than her, at least that's what you should be saying to yourself. Meet new girls that are CLEAN!

Just be thankful you don't have a STD, the amount of new members to the STD club is incredible and its still rising.

Image the life you want to live right now...........


Visualize it. See how you want to act, what you want to dress like, where you want to be, and in what state your in.


Now you have a goal to reach for.


Your are welcome.
hahaha true true, I actually knew this girl for like 9 months tho and was kinda pushed into going out with her. Yea I havent gotten any for over a month and its pissing me off.
 

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Pissing you off? It should stand ass a challenge rather than a frustration.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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