Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Before I ever started visiting dating forums, I always thought girls wanted a sincere, nice (but not a wuss), caring, modest, and respectful man. Boy was I wrong. I hear over and over about how guys who have jerk-like qualities have so much more success. So I feel like I have to change my nice personality now. I've been trying to but it's so ackward being someone that I'm not just so I can get a girl to even notice me.
Are girls like this everywhere? Are they like this in other countries? Man I would so move to another country to get away from this crap. Does anyone else feel like I do? Like you know that if you want to attract women you have to change who you are but you're having trouble trying to change who you are?
So many girls tell me "figure out who you are first and meet people like you." I've tried to meet so many people at my college but nothing ever happens. I try to use some humor, be respectful, and try to keep the topics interesting but I just can't make any friends here. I've tried joining clubs but I still don't feel connected with anyone here. I just don't know what to do anymore that will change this situation. I always eat alone in the cafeteria. I can never find someone to go out with at night.
All I can do is watch peoples' great social lives on the sidelines. I'm not "living" my life. I'm just on the sidelines waiting for something to happen. I've tried to break out of this but nothing is working. So how do you find yourself? I always like to think that I have but I'm not entirely sure now.
And what is it with girls still going after a guy after he cheats and lies to her and all of that horrible stuff? Are they really that stupid enough to feel like they can "change" that guy? Why change him when you can find someone better? That's what I don't understand.
That is my rant about women for today. I just needed to get this out so that I can start thinking clearly. Sorry for sounding all negative but this has all been in my head for the last few days. Feel free to criticize or comment, etc.
Are girls like this everywhere? Are they like this in other countries? Man I would so move to another country to get away from this crap. Does anyone else feel like I do? Like you know that if you want to attract women you have to change who you are but you're having trouble trying to change who you are?
So many girls tell me "figure out who you are first and meet people like you." I've tried to meet so many people at my college but nothing ever happens. I try to use some humor, be respectful, and try to keep the topics interesting but I just can't make any friends here. I've tried joining clubs but I still don't feel connected with anyone here. I just don't know what to do anymore that will change this situation. I always eat alone in the cafeteria. I can never find someone to go out with at night.
All I can do is watch peoples' great social lives on the sidelines. I'm not "living" my life. I'm just on the sidelines waiting for something to happen. I've tried to break out of this but nothing is working. So how do you find yourself? I always like to think that I have but I'm not entirely sure now.
And what is it with girls still going after a guy after he cheats and lies to her and all of that horrible stuff? Are they really that stupid enough to feel like they can "change" that guy? Why change him when you can find someone better? That's what I don't understand.
That is my rant about women for today. I just needed to get this out so that I can start thinking clearly. Sorry for sounding all negative but this has all been in my head for the last few days. Feel free to criticize or comment, etc.