why does it always have to be so freakin' difficult w/ women!

[Wiesman44]

I can get F-closes. I can pull some good looking girls. Yet, I get rejected a ****load of times. I don't know if I'd say my game is 'tight', but I'm definitely an approaching machine.

Thing is, I can get girls from the bars and clubs. Unfortunately, after f-closing them or getting their number, I can never justify going out with them a second time. The thought of being in a relationship w/ a girl that I met at a bar makes me cringe.

Personally, I hate the idea of having to 'hunt' at bars / clubs in order to meet women, but yet I do it. I'm not complaining that I can't find women at bars b/c I can. Its just that I dont want to have to. The problem is getting myself to want to have a day 2 or 3 with them.

And yet, I'm dating this awesome girl I met at a restaurant. She was a waitress, i hit on her and # closed her. We have amazing sex, and she is around whenever I need her.

Unfortunatley, this isn't enough. I can't have just one woman in my life. I dont know, its like having a bunch of friends. One woman just doesn't cut it. SO i'll go to clubs, pick up some women, try to get an f-close, devalue her b/c she's just a ho I just met at a club, never call her back, then get w/ HBwaitress while she continues to b#tch about wanting to get into a relationship.

You think not having women is bad ? Sh#t, I'm like a freaking woman that can't make up her mind. So am i acting like a little girl here or what ?

If this doesn't make sense, I apologize. I'm trying to get my thoughts together, but since I'm probably acting like a woman, its understandable that my thoughts don't make sense, b/c woman are illogical anyway.

 

[henrydreamx]

I can get F-closes. I can pull some good looking girls. Yet, I get rejected a ****load of times. I don't know if I'd say my game is 'tight', but I'm definitely an approaching machine.

Thing is, I can get girls from the bars and clubs. Unfortunately, after f-closing them or getting their number, I can never justify going out with them a second time. The thought of being in a relationship w/ a girl that I met at a bar makes me cringe.

Personally, I hate the idea of having to 'hunt' at bars / clubs in order to meet women, but yet I do it. I'm not complaining that I can't find women at bars b/c I can. Its just that I dont want to have to. The problem is getting myself to want to have a day 2 or 3 with them.

And yet, I'm dating this awesome girl I met at a restaurant. She was a waitress, i hit on her and # closed her. We have amazing sex, and she is around whenever I need her.

Unfortunatley, this isn't enough. I can't have just one woman in my life. I dont know, its like having a bunch of friends. One woman just doesn't cut it. SO i'll go to clubs, pick up some women, try to get an f-close, devalue her b/c she's just a ho I just met at a club, never call her back, then get w/ HBwaitress while she continues to b#tch about wanting to get into a relationship.

You think not having women is bad ? Sh#t, I'm like a freaking woman that can't make up her mind. So am i acting like a little girl here or what ?

If this doesn't make sense, I apologize. I'm trying to get my thoughts together, but since I'm probably acting like a woman, its understandable that my thoughts don't make sense, b/c woman are illogical anyway.

whats the point of this thread??It seems like everything is going pretty good for you,she is giving you good sex,and it looks like your a DJ you dont care about girls.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Keep them IMO.

WHenever i'm in no need of women i start ****ing with them and turning them away or just dissapear all together.

When I'm down to my last hoe I feel like an ******* and kickmyself for doing what I did before.

I'm planning on rotating from now on.

I could have spend the whole summer white a stable I formed this winter but me and my dumb ass...

 

[DonJuanByNature]

Unfortunatley, this isn't enough. I can't have just one woman in my life. I dont know, its like having a bunch of friends. One woman just doesn't cut it. SO i'll go to clubs, pick up some women, try to get an f-close, devalue her b/c she's just a ho I just met at a club, never call her back, then get w/ HBwaitress while she continues to b#tch about wanting to get into a relationship.

U nailed it right on the money.. First of, as a man, you have a genetic tendency to spread you seed.... Second of, since we naturally want OUR seend and not someone elses seed to implant a uterus, we have to be re-asured that this woman is only messing with your seeds.. When you see a woman giving off permiscious behavior (more acceptable these days) it makes you uncomfterble, cause your no longer re-esured that it is your seed that will implant her uterus, so this happens on genetic level, and then you justify it by knowilngly de valueing her..

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

I'll bet it's these "hoes" kicking his ass to the curb. Dude comes on here talking shyt, how do you know it's true? Sounds like a bunch of BS to me.

 

[TedJustAdmitIt]

Four little letters...MLTR.

 

[Wiesman44]

I'll bet it's these "hoes" kicking his ass to the curb. Dude comes on here talking shyt, how do you know it's true? Sounds like a bunch of BS to me.

Believe me. I get an awful lot of rejection. I'm not going to deny it. But with it comes lots of successes too. I'm not bragging at all. In fact, I've failed to tell you about every downfall and every rejection and just told you about the good things that have happened to me. So obviously it looks like I'm bragging.



I'm not saying I'm a huge player, I'm FAR from it, I'm just the type of person that likes to talk to a lot of random people. I never used to be this way though. I've just started a financial sales career, so hopefully my personality will allow me to succeed in this career very nicely. The employer must have thought I did have an outgoing personality.

To take the mystery out of why I'm posting this thread, I'm just curious if any of you guys have similar thoughts and feelings that I do. Anyone hate following up w/ bar #'s like me ? Anyone just feel like they can't get enough ?