Why does Good news always come with Bad ones?

[Lotus Effect]

Hey guys!

I have an awesome good news. At least for me, or for anyone else that know who the F am I, and what is my backstory.

Anyway, I am finally over my ex! :cheer:

After 11 months of NC, and a year and 4 months of the breakup, I've begun to like another woman.

This is great because this whole year was full of new people in my life, more than 200 make out sessions with different chicks, and 12 lays. But none of these has filled the whole in my chest and soul that my former chick left.

Not until now. I've met this incredibly sexy young girl, which I'm certain will give me lots and lots of headaches. I'm 26, she is 18. Also. Actress, and model!

The real good part of this story is that I'm happy I can feel these kind of feeling of infatuation for someone other then my ex.

The dreadfull part though. The bad news. Is that I'm sensing that I'm developing a case of one-itis over this chick. And how couldn't I?! She is young. She is stunning. She is hot... And she is all over me!

Incredibly enough, the today's Don Juan newsletter really resonated with my situation. Of obssessing over a girl. And it is not that I'm obssessed. It is just that I've fought so hard to get to where I am now, and got this awesome prize, that I'm not in the mood to loose it!

Of course, now I am waaay more experienced with relationships, and I know what kinds of things can really screw me over, in comparison to the blind sailing I did with my ex.

I don't have anything to ask in particular I guess. Just want to vent a little bit instead of checking the barrage of message she is sending me via facebook!

Good news. I can feel something for another girl.
Bad news. I still obssess about them

God Damn it! hahahaah!

Cheers guys!

 

[DragonBlood]

Life moves on

The most important lessons for you to take from this are:

1. YES girls are indeed replaceable and you over estimated the previous ones desirability or "the oneness" (girls are good at that)


2. Your more experienced but you still own the same mind and body, know and recognize your weaknesses and triggers to avoid past mistakes.


Honestly? an 18 yo actress/model. Your going to lose her at some point as she matures. Be ready.

 

[Lotus Effect]

Yeah, I'm quite sure it may happen...

Only thing though is that I just don't care like I did before.

If and when this time comes, I'll smile and wave her good bye! And, as you said mate...

Life moves on!

I'm just happy that I can feel somthing for another girl. I though this emotional limbo would last forever! hahahaha

 

[Skyline]

Are you REALLY over your ex? Can you look yourself in the mirror and repeatedly declare with confidence that you're over her? In reality, you're over your ex when you decide you're over your ex... It sounds so simple yet it can be so difficult!

And congrats on this new girl, I'm kind of curious on what she looks like if you're obsessing over her like that! Also, as long as you control your obsession you should be fine. Last time you let the game play YOU. This time, simply be the rules of the game and you shouldn't have any issues.

 

[Tictac]

You're already old enough to know that there are no unmixed blessings.

 

[mikey2012]

You need to control yourself man. If you don't you will be doing NC again. 18 is too young for her to have a serious relationship. Just have some fun but don't get involved .

 

[Lotus Effect]

I'm just in for the ride!

Whatever happens, is always good experience. What I'm 100% sure is that all the sh*t I've done with my ex, during and after the relationship, won't be repeated.

Of that I'm positive.

Now, about getting in a serious relationship with her, is not that big of deal. Ever since my ex I've dated 3 other girls, for something about 2 to 3 months. It is not the end of the world.

We are all here to improve our knowledge and skills, so in the end we can pull out young hotties with ease, and most specially, without the damage.

If she leaves, I'll miss her fine body, and her passionate kiss... But that is all. If she don't, I will continue to enjoy this fine piece of art that is her body for as long as possible!

I got to say, I'm happy with that.

Seriously. I am really doing well with my life now. In fact, I should've updated my Journal. But I'm incredibly lazy with that...

Anyway, as I was saying. I like my job, which is a new thing for me. I'm pushing my band forward. I have a new hobby, which is skateboarding (which is awesome btw), I'm hitting the gym hard, I've quited smoking, and most importantly...

I have a plan. And goals.

Things like these (18 year old chicks digging me) were only bound to happen! I totally agree with you Tictac.

So mikey2012 I can safely say that if the worse happen and she leaves, it will be impossible for her to do the same damage that my ex did... I have a thick skin now!

But even if she does, it's a good thing. I don't know about you guys, but being heartbroken was the best fuel for change that I've ever got in my life!

I'd took a hit of that again. Even that I know that is not going to happen. At least, not with that intensity

And Frayzer, I still think about my ex one time or another. It was a great relationship, at least for me, and the breakup was a life changing episode in my life. But I'm over her.

Now, here are some pics of the new girl! For your delight, and my bragging rights!

http://tinyurl.com/18yohotchick1
http://tinyurl.com/18yohotchick2
http://tinyurl.com/18yohotchick3 (The one on the left)

Cheers Guys!!

 

[jimmy18]

You're so over your ex that you felt the need to post about it to randoms on teh interweb.

If you want the rainbow, you have to put up with the rain.

 

[Skyline]

As long as you realize that you still think about her every now and them be completely fine, then you're in good hands. Its when those thoughts start to get out of hand is when your discipline is challenged.

And damn... Hazel eyes.... Long brown hair... Tan... I see some colllar bone... She looks gorgeous dude! But remember, she's just another hot chick! No excuse to treat her any different, well maybe have sex with her a little harder...

 

[Lotus Effect]

I'm not the one to pick a fight or discussion over the web jimmy18, 'cause it always feels like the paraolympics to me...

No matter who wins, you are still retarded...

With that being said, and considering the fact that this has been a long journey of recovery for me, your opinion is completely useless to me, 'cause you don't know who am I, and how much I'e struggled to get to where I am at.

So with all sincerity mate. Go f*ck yourself.

If you have nothing to add, remain silent in your uselessness! I'd sure apreciate that!

And thanks for the feedback guys. I'm well aware of all the red flags, not only her age, but also the actress/model carreer. This is a major one!

But, as I've said, I'm in for the ride.

Got to admit though. It is really a great feeling waking up not thinking about my ex. Or going to sleep. Or driving. Or singing! You've got the point! hahahaha