"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why do you think fat women are so determined to force acceptance upon us?

MatureDJ

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I was looking at a website, and it got me thinking ...

(WARNING: EMPTY STOMACH ADVISED!)

http://www.newsweek.com/full-beauty-photo-project-big-women-bare-all-636

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

Is it just part of the whole feminist schema - i.e., since men place a premium on attractiveness, including being slender, the whole "fat acceptance" movement is geared to try and get women to stop doing what they can to meet men's attractiveness criteria so that all women are just fat, thereby naturally quelling men's instinct to view women as sex objects? Or perhaps it is less sinister, and only fat women getting tired of losing out to attractive women?

I know there are some incredibly desperate men, but could there possibly be men desperate enough to poke around something like that?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The_flying_dutchman

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MatureDJ said:
Or perhaps it is less sinister, and only fat women getting tired of losing out to attractive women?

I know there are some incredibly desperate men, but could there possibly be men desperate enough to poke around something like that?

I think it's women being lazy moreso than any sinister feminazi direction...
 

piranha45

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Because they'd rather stay fat and continue living impulsively, than diet and exercise.

Next question!
 

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They want to gain an advantage while not doing anything to help themselves. That's it. That's at the bottom of any 'liberating' movement.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who Dares Win

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We should start a beta acceptance movement, imagine how cool it would be to simply do nothing and let her take all the decisions, doing a crappy job and spend all the day in the couch fapping and playing videogames while shaming those women spreading their legs for successful guys... :eek:
 

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Yes, clicking on that link is scary! :eek:

You're just seeing the law of supply and demand play out. There are so few single women in comparison to single men nowadays, so they know they can pig out at Golden Corral all they want & there will still be plenty of guys out there who'd rather have any warm body instead of continuing to jerk it to porn.
 

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speed dawg said:
They want to gain an advantage while not doing anything to help themselves. That's it. That's at the bottom of any 'liberating' movement.
^^ This right here. The Fat Acceptance Movement is just another wing of Liberals looking for everybody to "give them a trophy" for doing absolutely nothing.

Take a chick that's a 8 - 10 on the looks scale, she doesn't just WAKE UP and be an 8 - 10, she has to do a ton of things to maintain that look:

- She has to workout regularly
- She has to eat decently
- She has to keep her weight right
- She has to keep her make up right
- She has to keep her hair right
- She has to keep her clothes right
- She has to keep her nails right
- She has to keep her teeth right
- She might even got some plastic surgery done

All of that takes time, effort, money and work to manage. It usually takes this chick over 2 hours to get "ready" in the morning. Being beautiful COST something.

But the cows within the Fat Acceptance Movement want to be called beautiful without paying the price.
 

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Fat agenda is real. Fatties are infiltrating key positions in society and warping public opinion to their own advantage. They disseminate the attitude that larger and larger pant-sizes are normal. THEY ARE NOT.
 

Poonani Maker

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idk, but it's Dis-gust-ing. I fvcked a thin somewhat Asiatic girl Saturday. Best sex in a while. She was with 7 yr old son though, no t!ts, but great as5! Nice rear view (crisp pvssy), for some odd reason, but from the front her pvssy was beat up from having had a baby pass through it I guess. Still would 10 times rather have her than a fat hoe. Today, and ever other day, I See Fat waddling b!tches typing all over her phone. SOMEONE, Some Dude is showing her attention and hittin that. There will always be desperate dudes, especially in this day and age. It's sad, just no standards. And to hold hands and walk down the street seen with these waddling behemoths, and the dude (not bad looking really) shows no shame, shows no embarrassment from the mismatch. I feel really weird holding a fat woman close to me, because I am so different from that body type and it just feels/looks silly. Holding or hugging a fat woman like that as Your pair bond ends up making YOU look the worse. It makes You look pathetic, but guys have no shame nowadays.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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