"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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why do you guys stick around here?

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falconslax89 said:
be CONFIDENT!
im that random guy on the street that you make eye contact with everyday and immediately look away!
Bullshyt!

I have to call you out falcon, I'm not sure if the Mods deleted it, but you had a post here once stating that "Looks don't matter" and you put this pic up
http://s91.photobucket.com/albums/k302/falconslax89/?action=view&current=Photo289.jpg

You said that it was "Your Friend" who was UGLY, but was going out or pulled with Hot HB9 and you couldn't understand it, so you said looks didn't matter.

Now, you're making this thread, saying you're a confident guy and why guys with over 1,000 posts are still here? But you obviously wanted VALIDATION and wasn't CONFIDENT the day you made that thread. LOL fvcken falconslax.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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omega05 said:
to the people who say this forum is more about self improvement then picking up women, i disagree. self improvement for what? doing better in school or at your job? i dont need a forum to tell me that. i know i shouldnt even be relying on an internet forum to help me improve my game but it is the curiosity of learning some things that keep me coming back
Self improvement for becoming a confident person who embraces challenges and has the fortitude to stay strong through the ups and downs of life.

It's not about work and school.

I think you misunderstand the concept of self improvement. It's not about one specific category, it's about becoming a better man altogether. Through that, you'll get women, but most importantly these guys have to learn to value themselves above the women. The whole "You're the prize" mentality. But in order to think that way, you have to become the prize (work out, try new things like guitar, camping, sports, etc...get passionate about your career). And that all ties back into self improvement. This site isnt just "Here are some random tips to get women." It ain't that easy.
 

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Iceberg said:
Self improvement for becoming a confident person who embraces challenges and has the fortitude to stay strong through the ups and downs of life.

It's not about work and school.

I think you misunderstand the concept of self improvement. It's not about one specific category, it's about becoming a better man altogether. Through that, you'll get women, but most importantly these guys have to learn to value themselves above the women. The whole "You're the prize" mentality. But in order to think that way, you have to become the prize (work out, try new things like guitar, camping, sports, etc...get passionate about your career). And that all ties back into self improvement. This site isnt just "Here are some random tips to get women." It ain't that easy.

but like i said, why come to an internet forum to learn self confidence? what about the people who naturally do this without the aid of a forum?
 

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omega05 said:
but like i said, why come to an internet forum to learn self confidence? what about the people who naturally do this without the aid of a forum?
Why take karate lessons? What about the people who naturally learn self defense without the aid of lessons?

Why come to the internet to learn recipes? What about the people who naturally learn to cook on their own?

Sometimes people can learn things on their own. Other times, people need help. If you're shy, if you lack confidence, if you lack guidance, it'll be hard for you to figure it out on your own. Which is why you'd come to an internet forum, unlike the people who naturally do it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Mad Ghost said:
Bullshyt!

I have to call you out falcon, I'm not sure if the Mods deleted it, but you had a post here once stating that "Looks don't matter" and you put this pic up
http://s91.photobucket.com/albums/k302/falconslax89/?action=view&current=Photo289.jpg

You said that it was "Your Friend" who was UGLY, but was going out or pulled with Hot HB9 and you couldn't understand it, so you said looks didn't matter.

Now, you're making this thread, saying you're a confident guy and why guys with over 1,000 posts are still here? But you obviously wanted VALIDATION and wasn't CONFIDENT the day you made that thread. LOL fvcken falconslax.
your right...i did do that. no lying here. it was more i wanted an honest opinion on my looks and didnt want to sound gay by asking a bunch of dudes. i knew if i asked it like that people would respond, rather than making a thread saying "rate my looks.."i was fairly new to the site and didnt realize how often the topic came up..my bad.

anywho..ive been fairly confident all my life but in the last few months have gained even more confidence and have realized how silly it was and have not brought up the subject since.

good job calling me out though!:rolleyes:

btw...i am not chromeo
 
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