"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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why do you afc's try to reprogram yourself when all you need is to

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be confident and have goals and dreams that are more important than getting girls just being a confident version of yourself, theres many "alpha" males are u call it out there, they are all different and have different personalities but what they have is confidence and doing what they want to to reach there goals, why do you try to change your personalities?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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There are more than enough 'alphas' out there with type 'A' personalities that have great jobs, great confidence, great everything but still have the personality of a crushed pebble.

Changing your personality isn't a bad thing since it makes you become more engaging to other people. Some actually prefer that to just focusing on goals and dreams.
 

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There are ambitionless, absolute losers who score like Kareem Abdul-Jabbar.

There are good looking men with cut muscles and fantasy jobs who couldn't catch ass in a flophouse.

There are alpha male football stars with short haircuts, big muscles, and bad tempers who routinely lose their girlfriends to skinny, laid back type B personalities who seem more interested in charming women than intimidating people.

Some dude named Pook gave a bit of advice on this forum a while ago about men being in touch with their sexuality, or their masculinity, or something to that effect. Maybe a good way of saying it is Sexual Confidence. Sexual confidence separates the men who get laid from the men who spend a lot of time on this forum.

Sexual confidence and athletic confidence or career confidence are mutually exclusive phenomena and someone looking to attract ladies is best suited trying to foster confidence in the realms of social skill and sexuality.

My two cents, but I invoked your discussion forum diety so I feel that this post has some authority.
 
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