"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why do some women pull this crap?

merchant83

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This isn't so much a question on how to pick up chicks, just more on the the things they do.

There was this girl I liked a while back for a while. I eventually got around to asking her out. She rejected me. I wasn't bitter or anything but we still talked afterwards. After a while I noticed she started talking about other guys and how they like her and I thought "I aint going to stick around for this crap" so I stopped talking to her and haven't seen her for the past month and half.

So today I'm at the mall, eating and reading something when I come across her of all people. She saw me, came over and was like "Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii". I really didn't want to talk to her but did out of politeness. Anyway, not even a minute in she starts looking down at some tiffanys heart ring and starts rubbing it. She was obviously bringing attention to the fact she has a boyfriend, woop a dee doo. I excused myself and didn't come back,

Anyways, why do women feel the need to pull this ****? She already rejected me, I don't see why she has to get some extra kicks in just because of something I couldn't help. I've lost all respect for her personally.

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it sounds like deep down you are still liking this girl. You shouldnt care about the fact that she has guys lining up to date her. Show that you're happy for her and have your own happy life too.

A girl did that to me once, usually it means they are not interested but still want to keep you chasing and on a competitive mode.
 

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newbeginning said:
A girl did that to me once, usually it means they are not interested but still want to keep you chasing and on a competitive mode.
sounds like you hit the nail on the head. some girls like to mess with guys, they want to get a rise out of you and see you get jealous. if you see her again, don't ignore her but at the same time don't roll your eyes and act pissed off at her presence. just be cordial and short, she'll realize you don't care and leave you alone.
 

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There is no reason. Some girls are still very immature. Just ignore it. Why would it affect you in anyway if she rejected you already? are you not seeing someone else?

It's not a big deal you know? One of my exes came to me one day and said Hi to me and tried to get a reaction from me about her engagement. After i said, "hey! congratulations!", I was seriously happy for her. She felt weird and just walked away after telling me how happy she was to be engaged.

Her reaction was what made me even happier.
 
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