"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do men have nipples?

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Just had a weird thought this morning. Humans are the only mammals where the males as well as the females have nipples. Look at your dog, cat, a whale, a mouse, a cow, a sheep, whatever, none of the males have nipples. Since nipples only serve the biological function of providing milk to a newborn and males have no milk glands in the chest, why on earth do we men have nipples? I've never understood that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The hormones that drive sex-specific characteristics (e.g. genitalia) kick in after many other features (e.g. nipples) have developed on the fetus.
 

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Exactly what Duo said. There is actually a somewhat humorous book/cd called "Why do men have nipples" It's a sorta story but at the sametime asks and answers random health questions such as this.
 

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The answer is that as embryos men and women have similar tissues and body parts. If anything the embryo follows a 'female template'. That is why nipples are present in both sexes. It is the effect of the genes, the Y chromosome and the hormone testosterone that brings about the changes and masculinises the embryo. Testosterone promotes the growth of the penis and testicles. Because nipples are there before this process begins the nipples stay!

A certain level of the female hormone estrogen is present in all men. If, as a result of disease or a condition affecting hormones, breast tissue in men can grow (gynecomastia- abnormal enlargement of breasts,) and men can produce milk.
 

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We are all chipped from the same rock.

If there is a way to simplify, Mother Nature will.


Ovaries and testicles are identical early on.
Why is it men's and women's *******s are the same?

It's cause Mother Nature is efficient and doesn't create redundant equipment.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Vestigial organs. You don't need 'em, but chicks dig 'em.
 

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Male chimps have nipples.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Vestigial organs. You don't need 'em, but chicks dig 'em.
Duo/DJ damage were right.

Nipples in male humans isn't an example of a vestigial "organ", because a vestigial organ is an organ that once had a purpose, or function, from an evolutionary point of view, but no longer does today (or has a very reduced function) though the structure itself remains. Examples in humans include the appendix and coccyx.
 

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speakeasy said:
Humans are the only mammals where the males as well as the females have nipples. Look at your dog, cat, a whale, a mouse, a cow, a sheep, whatever, none of the males have nipples.
You didn't look very close! ALL male mammals have nipples. My male cat has nipples and my male dog had nipples. They are much smaller and do not function, but they are there.
 

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I found this..

I just noticed...i haven't trimmed my nipples

Hey calm down..relax...it hppens to to the best of"...Oh my GOD milk is coming out
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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