Why Do I Even Have Friends?!!?

[JonnyBGood]

here's the story ya geniuses...

Met this pretty hot drill team chick about 2 mos. ago... buddy o mine already asked her to homecoming... told me they were just friends. so i start spittin game. i get her to where she's pretty much in love with me, but im worried about ruinin a long friendship (try 8 out of my 16 yrs on earth) so i finally get to the point where im bout to just say hey if you dont want me to ask her out i wont, but otherwise im bout to. so i txt one o my real close friends and tell him what im bout to do cuz i wanna see what he thinks cuz he knows this chick too. he tells me HE likes her and alll this **** bout dont worry bros b4 hoes etc... the next day her drill team friends are all like "o ask her out she loves you blah blah blah" and my 2nd friend says you kno what go ahead and ask her out like totally serious. im in over my head here... i havent had a real gf for a year or more and im kinda feelin the itch but im not sure if i should go for it.... i kno all u bastards are thinkin o she's not worth it but if thats what your gonna say, dont say it cuz i already have that thought in my head... i want stuff i havent thought of please

 

[art of]

It all depends on what your buddys are like. I personally wouldn have held much of a grudge if one of my friends hit on my onitis, but thats just me. Likewise my friends and I usually get over our problems within a day or two regardless of how large they are.

I'd say ask them once more and then go for it. If things get wierd just drop her right away. Just remember to be observant of when your friends are getting edgy about it.

 

[Precursor]

You're basically telling us to tell you what you want to hear. So here it is.

Ask her out.

 

[Docs]

Nono, don't ask her out. Talk yourself out of it..

Nooooooooooo, don't ask her.

Kay, comeon, that was a waste of my time and yours....

 

[Kev07]

ask her out, if she really is in love with you, you would be doing your buddies a favor by taking her out of their minds.

i was actually hoping for my friend to ask out this one girl i used to like because i was getting tired of trying to un-LJBF myself, but it was still hard to get her out of my head, so i told him to do us both a favor and gof or it.

 

[RestoretheROAR84]

Go for it man, if your friend really is a good friend he'll understand.

 

[Alex_1987]

ASK HER OUT. He's your friend he has to understand, he can't have the mindset of "if he can't have her then you can't." so do it.

 

[Raikojo17]

wat do u mean she's not worth it? she freakin loves you , man. jus because u guys gotta work for a chick doesnt mean she's not worth it, i think u guys often mess up in these situations. ask her out already.