"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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why do hot girls get into porn?

DanelMadr

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Some time ago I saw a documentary about Danish beauty queen who did porn in US afterwards. She and her black husband also a porn actor, confessed that the experience ruined their their sexual lifes, his and hers before they got married. Basically you get used to look at making love as a duty, a job and they had trouble when they were supposed to make love to normal people.

I can imagine. When you spend half a day pretending to enjoy the f@cking meanwhile the director says cut every other minute. Then you have to do it with people you don't really know. But I guess it is better than being a prostitute. AT least the porn actors tend to be better looking and clean.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you guys decipher between women who entered the industry willingly and human trafficked women?
 

DanelMadr

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konmai said:
How do you guys decipher between women who entered the industry willingly and human trafficked women?
I doubt there are sex slaves in grade A porn industry. Maybe some basement production but who would make evidence against them public?

Prostitution is another case.
 

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konmai said:
How do you guys decipher between women who entered the industry willingly and human trafficked women?

Human trafficked women? Hahaha. So funny and so Western sounding. Look, I spend too much time in a part of the world where supposedly thousands of teenage girls are being trafficked against their will. Total bulls---! Those girls all know what they are getting into. Some Israeli or Turk who promises them a better life in Tel Aviv or Istanbul as a waitress is not fooling ONE single East European girl. They all know what they are getting into.

Only stupid Western feminist groups hype such stuff. Nobody in the region cares. Why? Because unlike you boys nobody worships the p----! Remember, in some parts of the world the girls actually will pursue you. I can give you a list of at least five countries where you WILL be pursued by girls (the caliber of) that you will NEVER get a date with in the West. Take a camera, a map, and wear higher-end clothing and walk around the outside of any mall in Ukraine on the weekend. The eye contact is unsettling. Ask ANYONE. Just walk around the underground of even Globus (at Maidan). Inside it is different because of all the security. That is also where you see ladies passing out brochures to student girls that hype romance tours. Brochures simply state that you get a free evening with exotic men. I swear! Exotic men :cool:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQOBeqGa67k&feature=related
People ARE NOT for sale. Or so says this Ukrainian commercial aimed at teenaged girls :nono:

As far as hot girls in porn?? Well, see...how can I break this to you boys. Most broads in America dress down. Plus, they are fat. They wear no makeup. They sit and act so unfeminine. The tramps that do porn actually play to your fantasies! That is their secret. It is why Western males fall in love with places like Ukraine, Russia, Latvia, and Estonia. The girls all seem to dress to impress. Plus, they have good genetics.

http://lh6.ggpht.com/_I-D83k7iK0A/T.../s1600-h/veryhotsexylatviangirlsinlatviagoblo[2].png
http://lh3.ggpht.com/_I-D83k7iK0A/T.../s1600-h/balticlatviaBlondeParadesexygoblonde[2].jpg
Basically every May in Riga, Latvia blonde females dress up in pink and parade around town to lift spirits. 25% unemployment and a minimum wage that a Mexican would decline will make you do that. I strongly doubt ANY Western females would do this. The fact is that many of you don't like them for a reason. You have been raised to believe you can't get something like that. That is why American guys head to Thailand and places with non-traditional looking females. Those women are a bit old at that parade. Your fathers could get just about any of them with ease. No joke.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Human trafficked women? Hahaha. So funny and so Western sounding. Look, I spend too much time in a part of the world where supposedly thousands of teenage girls are being trafficked against their will. Total bulls---! Those girls all know what they are getting into. Some Israeli or Turk who promises them a better life in Tel Aviv or Istanbul as a waitress is not fooling ONE single East European girl. They all know what they are getting into.

Only stupid Western feminist groups hype such stuff. Nobody in the region cares. Why? Because unlike you boys nobody worships the p----! Remember, in some parts of the world the girls actually will pursue you. I can give you a list of at least five countries where you WILL be pursued by girls (the caliber of) that you will NEVER get a date with in the West. Take a camera, a map, and wear higher-end clothing and walk around the outside of any mall in Ukraine on the weekend. The eye contact is unsettling. Ask ANYONE. Just walk around the underground of even Globus (at Maidan). Inside it is different because of all the security. That is also where you see ladies passing out brochures to student girls that hype romance tours. Brochures simply state that you get a free evening with exotic men. I swear! Exotic men :cool:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQOBeqGa67k&feature=related
People ARE NOT for sale. Or so says this Ukrainian commercial aimed at teenaged girls :nono:

As far as hot girls in porn?? Well, see...how can I break this to you boys. Most broads in America dress down. Plus, they are fat. They wear no makeup. They sit and act so unfeminine. The tramps that do porn actually play to your fantasies! That is their secret. It is why Western males fall in love with places like Ukraine, Russia, Latvia, and Estonia. The girls all seem to dress to impress. Plus, they have good genetics.

http://lh6.ggpht.com/_I-D83k7iK0A/T.../s1600-h/veryhotsexylatviangirlsinlatviagoblo[2].png
http://lh3.ggpht.com/_I-D83k7iK0A/T.../s1600-h/balticlatviaBlondeParadesexygoblonde[2].jpg
Basically every May in Riga, Latvia blonde females dress up in pink and parade around town to lift spirits. 25% unemployment and a minimum wage that a Mexican would decline will make you do that. I strongly doubt ANY Western females would do this. The fact is that many of you don't like them for a reason. You have been raised to believe you can't get something like that. That is why American guys head to Thailand and places with non-traditional looking females. Those women are a bit old at that parade. Your fathers could get just about any of them with ease. No joke.
Yeah, that's why they take away their passports, drug them, beat them, rape them....because they knew what they are going in to. Sure, many women especially in the East have lust for a few bucks but it doesn't mean sex slaves does not exist. Even if they expected to become hookers not babysitters, they certainly did not expect to become slaves.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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