"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do girls take so long to get ready?

SikWitIt

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So i got this HB 8 number friday i teased her pretty bad to the point wher she sent me an email. An said that i made her feel dumb an look like a stalker, so i said ill make it up to you on saturday hence i got her digits.

Anyway saturday i call around 7pm when i was finally free we start talkin an i ask her if she wanted to go see a movie, she said yes but she couldnt go because she just took a shower an her hair was wet an it was really cold outside she didnt wanna get sick.

I said the movie doesnt start for another 2 hours, she goes it takes me an hour just to blow dry my hair then i have to put on my makeup an straighten my hair an that takes another 3 hours plus find out what i want to wear. i said wtf 2 hours should be enough.

Then she goes on about some bs about how she's sorry she isnt perfect like my ex g/f an it takes her 4 hours that i should have called her earlier so she could of gotten ready.

An i guess im doing somthing right she's always calling me a jerk an say's im mean to her.If only she knew i had a g/f plus her on the side or vice versa im in deep i need to get rid of one of them, an she is prettier then my current g/f an younger.

But what sucks is valentines day is next week an my g/fs birthday is 2 weeks after that id really be a jerk if i broke up with her 2 days before valentines day.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ripper

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The same reason you come on here or go to the gym. To maximise your attraction potential.
 

MyOwnKryptonite

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Maybe Ripper but anyone that needs that much handy work before going out is hideing a lot

you gotta find a girl that looks good when she wakes up
 

dynamicallyidle

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4 hours? i would have broken up with her at hour 2 - and yes, i know it was your first date
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ripper

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MyOwnKryptonite said:
Maybe Ripper but anyone that needs that much handy work before going out is hideing a lot

you gotta find a girl that looks good when she wakes up
Well quite. This girl must be quite extreme - I mean how can the process take longer than an hour tops?!
 

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Its impossible for me and infact for US to decide what she is up to.

Lets look at this:

1. 4 HOURS= I have this feeling in my gut she was busy with something else, what it was, I cannot say as im not a magician however there was definetly something else she was doing, tops: 2 hours to get ready. 2 more hours to spare, well maybe a tv programme, maybe another date? Im not all together sure.

2. My other point if its taking her 4 hours, thats okay aslong as it doesnt affect the relationship, if its starting to "affect" it, RED FLAGS should start appearing, and if NOT now it will sooner rather than later cause conflict.
 

Rastaman

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If a girl likes you, you’ll become her priority, look at her actions not words. Common logic tells you that she is either lying to you or she doesn't take bath daily (4hrs per bath) either ways she is not good for you hommie, march on!
 

WaterTiger

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4 HOURS????

Who is this chick? Bride of Frankenstien? I can get ready in 90 minutes in a worst case senario. (From muddy garden work to dressed for the afternoon show at the Ballet) And that includes, all the srubs, lotions, toners, shampooing, blow-dry. make-up, manicure, nailpolish and choosing clothes.

What the HELL is that girl doing for all that time?????
 

SikWitIt

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I dunno probably just BS, anyway i dropped her ass an hour ago we were talking on the phone i said i was hungry she said me too. Then we started talking about chicken strips, an i asked lets go get sumthin to eat she said i dont eat dinner just lunch?

So i let that go an we kept on talking she said im too tired to go anywher strike out number two, little later in the convo we got into talk about movie stars.I said so an so was not a 10 an that i havent seen any 10's wher we live closest was a 9 then i said she wasnt a 10 but she was above a 5.

After that the convo went down the crapper she was pissed off that i said she was not a 10...:D Then she started singing like she was ignoring what i was saying :down: then i said your just pissed because i dont kiss your ass like everyoneelse :moon: She goes on about how nobody kisses her ass, then changed her story an said yea well it makes me feel better an i just made her feel worse anyway i told her she was a cry baby :cry: END of Story.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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