"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why do girls start going in to bvtch mode when it starts getting warmer

SirFratserlot

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Had to go nc on this girl, because she went to bvtch mode abruptly out of no where and eventually I told that I wasn't going to talk to her anymore unless she decided to have sex with me and stop bullshvting. Off course everything that came out of her mouth was complete bullshvt and I just got sick of dealing with it. It's not just me having bvtch problems, but my friends are having issues and I'm noticing a lot of new threads on this forum. I also hear that girls tend to have their bvtch shield on during the summer, so that's what made me bring this up.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SirFratserlot said:
Had to go nc on this girl, because she went to bvtch mode abruptly out of no where and eventually I told that I wasn't going to talk to her anymore unless she decided to have sex with me and stop bullshvting. Off course everything that came out of her mouth was complete bullshvt and I just got sick of dealing with it. It's not just me having bvtch problems, but my friends are having issues and I'm noticing a lot of new threads on this forum. I also hear that girls tend to have their bvtch shield on during the summer, so that's what made me bring this up.
I LMAO when I read that. Haha. U should try put it in another way, not like that. :crackup:

Maybe that's just me.
 

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It's a bigger issue than that. This bvtch came and attacked me at a party and wouldn't let me have sex with her because we weren't in a serious relationship. I thought she was just putting up her bvtch shield and that she would give it up eventually. Her friends told me she really liked me and all that other bullshvt. We went on more dates and slept together more and she started letting me do more stuff with her. Suddenly my gut started telling me something was wrong and it turned out to be right. We still kept fooling around with each other, but I could tell she was starting to see me differently. Last week she bit the fuq out of my neck and now I think it's infected. Recently I confronted her and she told me that she was not looking for a relationship and that she would only have sex with me if we were in one. Since I was pissed off that she lead me on like that, I went off on her and hence why I made this topic lol. I mean we were even making out and kissing soberly and she didn't say anything about it.
 
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