"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do girls keep old stuff from previous boyfriends?

penkitten

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I live in the now. I'm not one for memories of past relationships but the stuff looks damn good in my house. So with that I find happiness with women in the present while sitting around the cool stuff from the past! :up:
you're damn right!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rudy_TubeSteak

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I am one of those people who places a sentimental or emotional anchor on a possession. Therefore it is risky for me to keep old stuff, as it slides me back to the feelings I have associated it with which is usually bad because of a failed relationship.

If I am in a new relationship I dont see the point of keeping them as it distracts me from committing to the present situation. I usually have the same reaction to other people keeping old stuff in new relationships. It reminds me of gfs hanging out with their bfs and glancing back at the person who walked past.
 
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