Why do ALL promiscuous females, strippers, escorts, party sluts etc. need drugs & alcohol?

[The Duke]

I swear I have NEVER MET ONE wh0reish female that doesn't abuse drugs or needs the aid of a foreign substance in order to get horny and have sex. Every last one night stand or hookup I ever encountered needed to involve alcohol, marijuana, ecstasy or some other ****. Every escort and stripper I interacted with were heavy smokers, drinkers and relied on cocaine and alcohol to make their line of work more tolerable. Porn stars are the exact same way. If a woman is a smoker, drinker or a druggie (and has tattoos to go with that) she has no respect for her body and I can be 100% certain that she's had more sex partners than a professional sports league. It just goes with the territory.

The reason why this pisses me off is because I hate drugs, alcohol and can't tolerate cigarette/marijuana smoke. In social events I'm looked at as an oddball for refusing to do any of it especially when people try to peer pressure me and I stand my ground. I feel like this intolerance to substance abuse inhibits my ability to get sex. I can legitimately enjoy myself without having to do any of it. I get a natural high off life itself and I think sex is one of the greatest pleasures life has to offer. Nothing can really compete with it. Sex and the presence of a decent female is more than enough to put me on cloud 9 and keep me there but it kinda sucks that not only do I have to behave like a clown in order to get it but I also need to resort to drugs and alcohol in order to fit in.

The only conclusion I can come up with is that promiscuity is NOT the natural state of women. Never has and never will be. The substance abuse is nothing more than an attempt to drown out the self hate, shame and disgust in themselves and has nothing (zero) to do with "the patriarchy". I think I'd be better off abstaining considering all the unknown diseases that are getting passed around. This is getting to be really stupid. Any suggestions? Is there a such thing as girls that are "DTF" that don't need to put **** into their bodies (and expect me to do the same)?

I gained some great perspective on this when I used to hang out at a $trip club every Friday afternoon. Basically my group of characters were there to have a good time and attract females. In the beginning we attracted attention to our group with free booze and our funny personalities, but we wanted more and didn’t want to spend money to get it. So to get what we really wanted which was a constant supply of hot girls to date in and out of the club, we had to step it up a few levels and become the entertainment, not them. So for us to escape our “natural state”, and turn into ultra-party mode that everybody finds entertaining, we needed some sort of drug/alcohol to lower inhibitions in order to entertain these girls at the levels it took to score what we wanted. We basically had to beat these girls at their own game. It was a ton of fun for a few weeks. We got more attention than they did. The whole club knew we were there. Everybody knew our names. When we came in the front door, we did so in a loud boisterous fashion. We were like a Xrated Wild West show everyone was curious about. We Did everything sexual you could imagine, most times we got away with it, sometimes we got kicked out. One girl got fired for what she did with us. One time I Walked right up to the stage with a bottle of liquor and poured it all over a girl and licked it off in front of everyone. We got up on the pole and showed them how to dance. And we spent less than $20 each every time we were there. As time went on, it took more drugs/alcohol to get the same effect. Then it got to the point it became a job and when we would leave the club we were all mentally wore out, but the attention we were getting kept us coming back for more. These girls all expected us to be super fun/crazy every time they saw us. If we weren’t, they weren’t hanging out with us. It got to the point where it was a little depressing they didn't like you for who you really were, only this wild party animal. Truth of the matter is, entertainers(musicians, $trippers, actors, etc) all have to get into a some what un-natural state to entertain others. Few can do it with out drugs/alcohol. You are expected to put yourself out there. Nobody can do it 24-7. My group could barely hack it for a few hours every week. It’s a ton of hard work to put a fake face on and play someone you are not. Alcohol/drugs definitely make it easier to do. There’s a reason so many people in the entertainment business have substance abuse problems and suffer from depression. I give $trippers props, its definitely not an easy way to make a living.

 

[zekko]

So to get what we really wanted which was a constant supply of hot girls to date in and out of the club, we had to step it up a few levels and become the entertainment, not them. So for us to escape our “natural state”, and turn into ultra-party mode that everybody finds entertaining, we needed some sort of drug/alcohol to lower inhibitions in order to entertain these girls.....<snip>....We got up on the pole and showed them how to dance.

You became dancing monkeys.

Truth of the matter is, entertainers(musicians, $trippers, actors, etc) all have to get into a some what un-natural state to entertain others. Few can do it with out drugs/alcohol. You are expected to put yourself out there. Nobody can do it 24-7. My group could barely hack it for a few hours every week. It’s a ton of hard work to put a fake face on and play someone you are not. Alcohol/drugs definitely make it easier to do. There’s a reason so many people in the entertainment business have substance abuse problems and suffer from depression.

You're totally right on target about that. You have to be "on" all the time, on demand. Alcohol and drugs help you do this - it may be artificial, but it has to be done. It's not too hard to understand why strippers might indulge, considering they are under pressure to be the entertainment.