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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Why are there a lot of ethnic women in porn but not a lot of ethnic men?

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I notice that I see a lot of latina, Asian and occasionally even an Indian/Middle Eastern chick who is a pornstar but I don't ever see guys of those races doing porn. Now I can get the case for Asian and Indian men since they tend to be under-sized but I don't know why there aren't a lot of Hispanic or Arab dudes plowing p00sy.

Even the overlap is huge, like there are a gazillion latina pornstars but not any Hispanic dudes smashing white girls.

The only other race than white is black and that's about it. Is it some sort of a huge agenda?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is it some sort of a huge agenda?
Aw, come on!! Any sort of "huge agenda" is the least likely scenario. I'd say it's more a result of the market, there's no significant demand so there's less of it. The only agenda of any company is to maximize profits, which they won't by selling something less desired.
 

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Yes it is a huge agenda... Whitey is keeping them down....

Why would you even be interested in what guys in porn ?...
 

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Like Grewd says, there's no specific demand. Men in porn are about as important as the sofa. Different races and ethnicities of women will be sought out for their different "flavors". No one really cares about the men.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There are certainly hispanic dudes in porn, I can think of one dude.

The studios around miami also use latinos a lot

Very, very, weird and gay thread though.
 

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To be fair, many other cultures are not as sexually open, or as comfortable with explicit sexual media as the West.
There's not going to be a huge glut of Arabic p*rnstars from regions where even drinking beer is sometimes enough to get you locked up. Same in India - porn is kind of taboo.
 

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The reason is that white people are widely regarded as the most attractive race, and the premium that must be paid to a man to do p0rno work is MUCH less than the premium that must be paid to women; hence, it is more difficult to find white women for p0rn, and so the producers go shopping in the bargain bin.
 

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So what you're saying is that your greatest concern is a lack of coloured penis in your life.

Not gonna judge. It's the 21st century, and all that. You do you.
A lot of projection going on there, was your boyfriend too rough on you last night?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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