Why are older women more friendly?

[Nikar]

Recently, I noticed something (albeit a bit late) that I believe most guys here are aware.

Why is it that in any given social setting, older women (approx 35 and above) seem to be more friendly and open to conversations? I mean, you don't even have to use any DJing whatever, you can just talk to them like your guy friends and they respond very well. Here at my dance studio, the older ladies are usually the ones who make eye contact and being friendly, while the younger ones always have this serious, stiff aura around them. They're not open to talking and just want to do their own stuff whatever it is.

I mean, these older women are already married with kids and have a happy family life, so the theory of "they're old, single and horny" doesn't quite apply here. Besides, they behave in a sort of non-sexual, friendly neutral manner.

Why? :crazy:

 

[zorg198]

I can say that,
Because they automatically friend zone you when they talk to you

 

[VikingKing]

Because they hit the wall and have not been getting as much male attention as they used to. So of course they will be more inviting.

 

[RangerMIke]

Flirting with women in thier late 30s and 40s is really fun. Married or not, they freaking love it, even if they are taken. If you REALLY want to make them happy, do it at a party where there are some younger women.... Completely ignore the younger gals and their interest in you will sky rocket FAST.

If they aren't available they will let you know... then they will drag you over to one of their available friends and practically push both of you into the nearest bed.

I read "The System" years ago, there was a part of the book where Doc. Love recommends that when you are at a wedding that you should go up and dance with the older women right at the start... and that it has a positive impact on all the other women at the reception... This is so true, and completely falls in line with John Nash's game theory. This one scene in this movie completely explains why this works.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CemLiSI5ox8

 

[synergy1]

they are more friendly because they have to be. Same with nice guys who have no options. People are creatures of necessity, and nothing more. We are as faithful as our options, and as nice as our options as well.

 

[Bingo-Player]

because they hold little to no value

ever heard of the saying

"beggars cannot be choosers"

 

[Trump]

Recently, I noticed something (albeit a bit late) that I believe most guys here are aware.

Why is it that in any given social setting, older women (approx 35 and above) seem to be more friendly and open to conversations? I mean, you don't even have to use any DJing whatever, you can just talk to them like your guy friends and they respond very well. Here at my dance studio, the older ladies are usually the ones who make eye contact and being friendly, while the younger ones always have this serious, stiff aura around them. They're not open to talking and just want to do their own stuff whatever it is.

I mean, these older women are already married with kids and have a happy family life, so the theory of "they're old, single and horny" doesn't quite apply here. Besides, they behave in a sort of non-sexual, friendly neutral manner.

Why? :crazy:

Come on bro, really? You run a dance studio and ask this question?

If your stock is high (younger women), you are not going to sell your product to people who don't have money.
If your stock is low (older women), you will try to sell your product to whoever will listen.

Dancing 101.

 

[Poon King]

The same reason beta losers are so friendly.

 

[logicallefty]

Agree about the more friendly part, but I don't think it starts at 35 in most cases, other than maybe with the women who are rough around the edges from all of the d|cks they've had by 35, all of the times they have been beaten by men who wouldn't put up with their sh|t, or all the cr@ck they have smoked or beers they have guzzled.. I would say, in general terms, many 35 early 40s women are still immature snotty little br@ts but getting into early-mid-late 40s the OP is spot on.

 

[Between_The_Lines]

And God bless these value-leaking creatures. All the better to sharpen your game on.

 

[El Payaso]

Because they have hit the wall.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Not all older women are friendly. I've come across many older women who are bitter and twisted.

Those that are friendly doesn't mean they have hit the wall either.

If someone is friendly it's probably because they have a healthier outlook on life as opposed to those who aren't (something which may or may not come with age).

I've also met plenty of young hot girls who were friendly who haven't hit the wall but have a healthy outlook on life.

To test who has a healthy outlook on life, judge by their fruits/actions/posts - are their fruits bitter or sweet. This goes for men as well as women. Who on this forum has a healthy outlook on life? Read their posts and judge accordingly.

 

[Fin9]

As Pook once said: Older women are easiest to have casual affairs with. Youth is a wizard's staff and without it, she can cast no spells.

 

[Mike32ct]

Recently, I noticed something (albeit a bit late) that I believe most guys here are aware.

Why is it that in any given social setting, older women (approx 35 and above) seem to be more friendly and open to conversations? I mean, you don't even have to use any DJing whatever, you can just talk to them like your guy friends and they respond very well. Here at my dance studio, the older ladies are usually the ones who make eye contact and being friendly, while the younger ones always have this serious, stiff aura around them. They're not open to talking and just want to do their own stuff whatever it is.

I mean, these older women are already married with kids and have a happy family life, so the theory of "they're old, single and horny" doesn't quite apply here. Besides, they behave in a sort of non-sexual, friendly neutral manner.

Why? :crazy:

I could write a book on this topic. There are many reasons...

1. On average, older women are less shallow. They are, hopefully, beyond the young snobby phase of "If he's not hot, he is not allowed to breath the same air as me lol."

2. Older women grew up in a different time and hopefully know more about being polite. Or they hopefully learned to be polite/professional in the work world.

3. A lot of older women DON'T do one night stands. They have this, "Those days are over" sort of attitude. So if she's not concerned with having to put out, you aren't a threat.

4. She may be taken. A lot of taken women are friendly because, like #3, they don't have to worry about F-ing you.

5. She may be humbled by hitting the wall or at least having declining looks.

6. She may be a mom. She might be kind to a much younger guy as a maternal sort of thing.

Obviously, not ALL of the above apply all of the time. There are exceptions. But generally, I agree with you.

I frequent a dance studio and go to many dances elsewhere. I don't usually ask younger women to dance, unless she is a regular that the studio that I know is polite and friendly. Or if they ask me first, fine. But most of the time, I only dance with older women.

 

[Jaylan]

Older people in general are less shallow, depending on their looks, status, and overall value. I have run into some shallow and materialistic older folks though. But its a lot more common amongst young people. When people get older, they start to value other things. They've lived life a bit, and dont care about fleeting bs as much anymore.

This said, its not uncommon to see older men and women being extra nice, flirty, and almost kissing ass of someone whos young looking, fit, and attractive.

 

[Bible_Belt]

the younger ones always have this serious, stiff aura around them. They're not open to talking

Think about the perspective of a young, hot woman. Everywhere you go, every guy you meet tries to hit on you. Most of them will make jackasses out of themselves and create an uncomfortable, awkward situation for everyone involved. Have you ever had an unattractive girl hit on you to the point of it being awkward? I know I have. Imagine if that happened everywhere you went.

So the girl is being a b!tch to keep you from making a fool out of yourself. From that perspective, being b!tchy is the nice thing to do.

 

[nismo-4]

They are happy about getting male attention. Most will friendzone you automatically.

If you aren't banging these chicks, what's the point of being around them? They like orbiters too.

For a man to win, sex must happen. For a woman to win, attention must be coming in. Sex not necessary.

Case closed.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I find that older women exchange their sexuality for feeling "powerful", as defined by the media that they engorge themselves on... This is their new form of self-validation as the attention of men wanes.

 

[YawataNoKami]

The wall take no prisoners my friend.

 

[Cremasta]

Because it takes some people years to flush high-school out of their system.