Who's better?

[alwayslead8821]

Something that I have realized in the past couple weeks is how people respond to the different ways I act. This is not just talking about girls it applies to everyone. People are naturally insecure and I believe are not truly happy. They are consistently looking for people to surround themselves with that make them happier and feel more secure. If you are someone that is consistently thinking of what other people think and have social anxiety this is why you lack on the social side of things.

If you are not being confident and happy because you’re nervous or shy there really is no reason for other people to be around you. It is selfish but it is their basic nature to think of themselves first.

I see this a lot with celebrities, they don’t want to talk to people that are like Oh my god! It’s you! I’m your biggest fan! I started thinking of this when reading “The Game.” Style had girls like Courtney Love and Brittany Spears want him because he didn’t kiss there ass! He was just himself so they had the natural feeling that being around him would make them happier.

The best remedy for this I have found is to naturally think that you are better then the person you are talking to and to be yourself. (not in an arrogant way just a way that makes sure you are not kissing there ass).
I’ll add more later and any comments are appreciated.

 

[=VAGO=]

I try not to give a damn if they don't want to interact. As long as I'm smiling and enjoying life I'm good.

If you are not being confident and happy because you’re nervous or shy there really is no reason for other people to be around you. It is selfish but it is their basic nature to think of themselves first.

You also never know what people have been through and why they are the way they are. I say this because I used to be that way and yeah bro that is hella selfish.
My thinking is 1) live life how you wanna live it because it's short 2) don't take handouts and be self-sufficient 3) live in the moment because if you think about it, it's all you really have!

 

[zekko]

If you are not being confident and happy because you’re nervous or shy there really is no reason for other people to be around you.

I've often wondered why it is such a big deal for someone to be confident before someone else can like them. I suppose it's because if they're not confident they may not be open and friendly, and it's too much work to get them to open up. I can think of one reason to be around someone who isn't confident though - they're easy to lead.

Style had girls like Courtney Love and Brittany Spears want him because he didn’t kiss there ass!

It's amazing how much of "game" boils down to simply not giving a fvck about the girl. I guess that's what they want.

 

[schttrj]

absolutely right!

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